Re: I'm (not) in love with a stripper!!!
BEWARE... this is more like a journal entry to help explain to those who might be interested in a gym like scenario to practice game.
So today i got paid, after taking care of a few bills i decided to rock out in the batting cages as Immortal puts it. Arrived at a Strip Club i've decided to be my gym to test out game with different dancers to see if i can improve my social awareness with women in a bar like setting. luckily the city i'm in has many of these strip clubs and they're more like bars than they are traditional strip clubs where you are constantly hassled for tips or dances.
after arriving at the club i took bill preston's advice on his post about stripper game and immortal's 2 cents too about treating it like a gym. i drank 2 beers before i gave any strippers my real attention. i used the reflections on the walls to gauge the mood of the club, picked out which girls were of my exciting caliber. i went up to the stage to tip--i had seen an image online earlier today with a dollar bill standing on another dollar. not sure if it meant anything so i tested it out when i went up. dancer didn't treat it like it meant anything. got a small preview and decided to sit back and wait for another dancer. tested this out 2 more times.
on the 3rd dancer i decided to fold and stack my dollars into some kind of structure--it didn't matter what i could tell the 3rd dancer whom i'll call Jersey was flattered that i was building something. no one hardly builds things out of dollars for these dancers. she made it a scene that she had to knock it down to get to me. i laughed. she laughed back. 2nd song came around--her clothes came off, i repeated the dollar stacking and had my drink slightly to the right of me but still in reach. she came back and gave the same reaction--i told her to blow it down like birthday candles. she did it. i laughed. as we were having a moment she kept moving her legs around and knocked my drink. i laughed so hard that i walked away. that's never happened to me before. after coming out of the bathroom she walked up to me and said she'd buy me a beer. she was now thrown off of her high horse of being a Hired Gun. i made it appoint that because i've never had this happen i needed to see if she was better in giving me a lapdance. sadly she wasn't that much better. i couldn't stop laughing about the drink. it was my way of saying this dance isn't doing it for me. my laugher made it clear that i was not interested in her bouncing on me. personally i prefer the dry hump / grind. it's a way for me to practice my Kino--and gives me extra room to practice my eye contact with a girl in seeing if i can get an extra look in her eyes. i use dances to help me gauge how accurately i can read a woman as well as escalate physically and verbally.
after the dance she went back into the dressing room, i ordered a meal. i was hungry. during my meal i saw a new dancer walk in with a strong confident walk unlike most others who are rushing to the dressing room ignoring everyone there. i entertained myself with Jersey a few more times without tipping at the stages now. she kept making it clear that she felt very normal with me and that she didn't want to give any dances to the group of asian guys whom she originally thought i was with because i was asian too. i laughed. i couldn't help it. ultimately she gave in and gave them dances.
around this time i decided to sit down with the one girl who walked in with confidence whom we'll call Sylas at the bar. we talked for a bit--there was another girl who was trying to share seats with her and then realized she was supposed to go up to the stage. i easily convinced Sylas that we were going to make it rain. between the two of us we had $10 singles total. this is something i picked up back in college--if you can get a dancer to treat other dancers with you the more all the other dancers are more likely to flock to you because you're breaking the habits of other customers. yes it's spending money but--you're creating a social situation in which the girls are excited to be entertained by. they're more likely to invest in banter after these situations because you're not just gawking with dollars out of your pockets. the dancer on the stage kept making remarks about Sylas and how jealous she was of her moves. i was in the moment and we went back for a dance. 1 minute in she heard her name called. i called her a tease--she said she owed me one. i followed her to the stage but hung out at the bar first. saw that no one came to see her dance. i went in and did not throw down any singles. because no other guys came up to the stage we just talked as she dangled her legs wrapped around mine. found out we knew mutual acquaintances. her stage time was up--and now back to the full dance. i layed down what i was interested in for the dance and she reciprocated with lots of eye contact. she led my hands to places most dancers would never even want to move them on her own accord. the dance was great--got to practice my kino and eye contact and picked up where we left off in conversation. then she went back to the dressing room and i went to the bathroom.
coming out of the bathroom i saw Jersey in new underwear. sat down with her. she kept talking about how weird the other asian guys were. i was officially beyond just a regular customer at this point--i was not dealing with a hired gun any more. my time with Jersey was always laughing and smiling because of where things have gone since she's spilled my drink. had she not done this--we would not have gotten this far in connecting. towards the end of the conversation her time was closing up and i made a mistake of saying that i hadn't tipped her for the last few dances on the stage--personally i didn't mind saying it because of the spilled drink... but it was bad etiquette. this was the last i saw of her--she went home without saying good bye. it's fine because i was too busy...
...talking to Sylas. i joined her back at the stage--no tipping. because we already connected previously through 2 stage dances and a lap dance she spent more time with me than the other men now gawking at the stage. in the middle of the 2nd song after she left me to goto another customer i walked away and stood at a table. she came by and obliged that i sit with her. we talked. pulled out phones and i closed with her instagram and got her real name. found out she has her own business--travels around the world to do photoshoots and that she's been in magazines. pretty sure i've breached the customer zone at this point. as we talked i found out she has a half white half japanese kid--but no longer married to that guy--instead married to another guy whom she has an open relationship marriage with. found out she's not just a dancer but i guess they call these dancers who take the strip club game more seriously for entertainment sake to be called 'Liver"s. made sense to me--our mutual friend had the same vibe too. after continuing to talk found out how much she made on an average night and that in her time already there she already locked in $100 for being in there for barely 2 hours. i thought about getting one more dance but i called it a night.
---now after all this looking back... i made a risky move by the 2nd half of my night by not tipping at the stage. i don't recommend this to everyone doing it. but i was ballsy. i believe because i was so talkative that i kept the dancers occupied about who i was to them instead of focusing on the money. because i got 2 dancers to laugh--smile and offer to close the gap between our relationship between customer and hired gun they were open to my presence more than other men who just sat there quietly staring. i'd imagine most other customers do not do much conversing and simply lay out dollars for a show not knowing you can game the girls for more than just a show--but for their company as well.
in the end i probably spent more $$$ than i wanted to but i only walked in there with cash and didn't pull out more than i needed so i can get creative with my game. to be honest being short on dollar bills for stage tipping made me curious if i would be able to pull this off--but luckily i connected with the girls before all of this. hopefully this stuff helps those of you lurking to improve your game with Hired Guns. again--think of these strip clubs as gyms to break down those hired gun scenarios. all the same rules apply to other hired guns--they're just not as... naked.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.