There is a Co-worker of mine who I am having a hard time asking out. I respect the fact that she has a boyfriend and do not want to be a home wrecker.
First of all she has a boyfriend but only refers to him as his name. Throughout the last year that I have worked with her. She has always asked questions like and comments:
"Do you like to date women outside of your race?"
"Would your parents approve of a girl you brought home that was not the same race as you?"
"Are you available?"
"You look really good in your street clothes?"
Should I ask her out or focus on other things and wait for her to ask me out?