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Thread: She called me out. What now!?

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    Default She called me out. What now!?

    I met this girl a few nights ago at a house party that I threw and her and I hit it off. We ended up making out and fooling around for a while but I didn't sleep with her. She was dd and had to leave that night so I got her number and hit her up the next evening and we texted throughout the day today. I'm definitely confident that shes into me and shes cool as shi* so I'm trying to play it smart. A few hours ago we were flirting and talking about the other night, then she told me how smooth I am and that I probably hook up with girls all the time, which in a witty way basically blew it off. But the next text she sent she straight up asked me about this girl that I was sleeping with for a while up until 3 weeks ago, so I just kinda jokingly played it off thinking that I could just turn the conversation around and all would be good. I hooked up with this other girl last weekend but she was visiting from London for a week so I was almost positive nobody would hear about it so I definitely wasn't expecting her next text which said " oh really?? well what about the girl from London? lol" Completely threw me off guard and I didn't know how to respond to that since I blew off the first one I couldn't really blow off that text. It was around midnight at that point so I said screw it and didn't reply. It seemed like she was hinting that she thinks i'm just going to play her and that she's not down for that... which I actually could see myself dating her in the future so at this point any advice on what to do/say or not say would be greatly appreciated. I've never had a girl call me like this before and don't know what approach to take.

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    Default Re: She called me out. What now!?

    First of all, only post your threads ONCE. There's nothing more annoying than three of the same posts in quick succession.

    Okay, now on to the helpful stuff:

    You need to build comfort with her. The only way that she is going to feel played is if you haven't built up enough comfort. Sure, she is going to be jealous about that girl from London. That's not necessarily a bad thing. By her being jealous, she's becoming more emotionally invested with you. Just don't play it up.

    You're playing with fire here. jealousy is good in small amounts, but overuse can lead to you being burnt. Don't mention the girl from London again. If she brings it up, be truthful with her. Yeah, you had a thing. It's over now. When you're with the new girl, be 100% there. She'll notice if you're not paying attention, if you're texting or if you're 'subtly' checking out the hot chick adjacent to you. This will only lead to her feeling cheap.

    Basically, just be smart. Don't try to make her jealous, REALLY get to know her and pay attention when she opens up to you. Good Luck.

    PS: If you ever post the same topic three times in a row... I will look for you. I will find you. And I will go Liam Neeson on yo ass.
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    Default Re: She called me out. What now!?

    You should ask her out as soon as possible, it's actually sabotage your chance with her by exchanging so much text with her before you sleep with her multiple times.

    Only use text to ask a girl out & confirm time and place.

    Everything else you can talk when you both meet

    Beside, if she mention London girls, just tell her it might be not the right time to do, but it's over (like Thommo said).

    And one more thing, don't use jeaolusy to get a girl, not to say it's not like a man thing (more like a girl thing), it actually also show that you are not that experience with women & you don't know how to love a woman.

    Instead, just show your genuine interest to get to know her, inspire her and at the same time keep the interaction sexual and bed her as soon as possible. Give her a good night of course.

    Hope this help,
    Naughty Napoleon


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