In order to destroy something, we must first understand it: One-nitis is basically your mind going to scarcity mode, meaning you forget that there's a billion more women in the planet and focus just on this one special girl.
Now why and how does this happen? It happens mostly to AFC's discovering their new found knowledge about pick-up. These AFCs or unnaturals weren't used to the positive attention, or attention for that matter, given to them by girls. So it programs their minds that "This is the only girl that you receive IOIs from your entire life. Don't fark this up"
Once you find yourself talking to you, telling you "Don't fark this up" You're already farking it up.
But one-nitis also happens to the mPUAs, why? Because when you're at that stage that you get to game and pull any women you like in any place you like The Game becomes stale. We are men, Men are competitive by nature men want challenge, men want to play the game. So that when they meet that one girl, that one girl who doesn't fall for their game, that one different girl. They go scarcity mode.
One-nitis is not a disease, it's merely an infection, a virus that can be treated. One-nitis is a very tricky virus though, it is the trojan virus of feelings. At first it makes you feel good and excited, it gives you this extraordinary feeling but then It goes deep inside you without you ever realizing it, slowly killing the alpha inside you.
So what's the cure for this alpha-killing infection? fark ten different girls? haha no. what about the AFCs? the ones just starting? how do you expect them to fark ten girls while getting over one?
The solution is simple, kill it with it's own trick. Kill it silently.
One-nitis deceives you by making you feel good. Cheat the crap out of it by making IT feel good. Got it? Basically one-nitis tells you that you have found THE ONE, the one and only girl the you would want to spend the rest of you non-pua life. So, what the hell is stopping you from going out and sarging the hottest women on planet earth? Fear of rejection? why? YOU FOUND THE ONE. Fear that other girls might not like you? who the fark cares, YOU FOUND THE ONE. The hottest girls are out of my league, YOU FOUND THE ONE it doesn't matter anymore what the other girl's reaction would be because in your mind, there's only one girl that you could be happy with. Just think of it as a social experiment, just to see what it feels like. Treat it like an adventure ; something new that you'd like to try.
Now three things could happen from this.
a.) You find out that ; there are thousands more hotter women than your ONE; Hundreds more awesomer girls than your ONE .
b.) You find another ONE and your One-nitis becomes two-nitis, three-nitis and so on...
c.) You fail on every set resulting into major damages in your confidence which in return would push your THE ONE away. Then you become depressed and lonely and die of h....just kidding mostly you'll realize that she isn't, as a matter of fact, THE ONE.
One-nitis isn't all that bad. Sometimes it's just awesome to feel something for someone. It keeps us from being, as Style said, "Social Robots".
One-nitis is one of those viruses that is already in our system the minute we were born. It just gets activated when it finds the compatible mate for you. Meaning, it doesn't go away, you can cure it but it's still gonna be there. You're gonna feel the exact same shit when it gets triggered by another compatible mate.
The thing is use it to motivate you. Use it to make you go out. Use it as a motivation to keep improving yourself and your game. Use it for your benefit, don't let it use you. Go out, get your shit together and do what we normally do.... PLAY THE GAME.