Okay so lets just shortly describe myself. I'm considered really attractive and because of that i get the occasional he must be gay rumor about me all the time when people find out i've always been single. I recently lost weight a few years ago and i'm still horribly shy around women i'm attracted to . I can talk normally to girls i don't find that cute or anything but even then i get frozen when talking to new people. There has been NUMEROUS girls that are very good looking who i've been told are intersted in me or wonder why i don't approach them but in all honestly it's like i have a fear. I fear talking to people like the cashier at a restaurant and so on. I've never had many friends and up until college now it' a complete flip and i've fixed that part of my life but i still get anxiety with women. I honestly get mush mouthed and get quiet and act like i don't see them when around them.I've gone a whole year ignoring a gorgeous girl who everyone knew was attracted to me. How do i fix this i realize it's stupid and i could have been with numerous different girls in my past and i'm finally ready for a change. I never really thought of it till now but I want to feel some sort of connection with a girl or girls and begin the dating scene.I don't know if it's intitmidation or what but i've even heard girls whisper i don't know what i'd say to him he's so cute but he's quiet or weird ( different variations of this).The thing is once people get to know me and as i've opened up in college i'm a fun lovable guy but how do project this on my advancement to women.