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    Thugnificent is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Question about managing blushing

    Hey folks, I have a question for the guys meeting girls out there. Do any of you have issues with a physiological blushing response when doing this? If so how would you manage and deal with this, or is this a potential advantage (have a good counter to the girl shit testing your blush)? Please note I ask guys, because I think for girls blushing, this could be a positive thing (like an ioi guys can use).
    Usually it comes on within the first minute of initial contact, when the emotional anxiety is highest, and because I'm light skinned it's fairly noticeable. I seems for me to be near impossible to control because sometimes even if I'm on a roll with a girl, if my emotions are high, I will flush. For me it's not so much the emotions that bother me, or even the other physiological responses, it is the blushing that bugs me, which is undoubtedly the most visibly obvious to the girl.
    Now I have considered meds or physical concealment to suppress the response but this is not what I mean.
    Thanks for the attention and responses.

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    Default Re: Question about managing blushing

    I can blush at times I think. I think most women don't care. There some who find it cute when you blush while you're flirting.

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    Default Re: Question about managing blushing

    Nothing you can do about it except for own it.

    The primary problem here is that you're asking the wrong question. You're worried about what women are thinking about your blushing when what you should really be worried about it is what you're thinking about your blushing.

    If you don't give a fuck about your blushing, neither will she. Chances are she won't even notice. In addition, if you're in a dark club she probably won't even be able to see.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Question about managing blushing

    I don't have the problem with blushing, but with sweating when under stress.
    I conquered it now to a point I think is satisfying for me.
    Most poeple are busy with their own problems and won't even notice. The next thing is, the more I was afraid I would sweat again made my heart rate got way higher and the more I sweat, which freaked me out more and so on. Taking a deep breath, closing your eyes and rubbing your hands together resets your brain and your physical stress. (artandale said something similar to me about overthinking).The next thing is: You're not alone. There are many people who blush, I think it's cute with girls, many girls think the same about blushing guys.

    The worst about a fear is the fear, the worries what might happen. I once was trenched in sweat, the only thing someone said was: Even Tow's hot, this weather is horrible for having exams. Also a super sentence someone said (was it Julien from RSD?): The more personal a problem is, the more likely it is that (many) other people have the same problem or understand your problem. Blushing seems way more comfortable than sweating from my point of view

    Hope, this helps atleast a little bit.

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    Default Re: Question about managing blushing

    I used to blush sometimes when I first started gaming and even got some comments on it. Some girls may find it cute. You shouldn't let it bother you and just keep gaming.


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