Re: help me im poor
I have the same problem mate, had a lot of bad breaks in life. And I MEAN A LOT. But I just bought my dream car yesterday so now I can finally cross that off my Outer Game Agenda and thought I would be getting it in Phase 2 not Phase 1. Anyway been hitting the Gym 1.5 years got 4 tatts this year and my 5th next month. After that taking a year break from tatts and only 3 left.
My tatts are sick now that I filled that spot. Peeps always commenting, asking, people just see my tatts and start talking about theirs or they talk about how bad they want one. 3 people at work got tatted after me likely due to my influence and even after I posted my Pink, Green, and Blue flames on FB? My FB buddy? Guess what? He fills his in with none other than Pink, Green, and Blue!!! So yeah people are crazy but I just do my own thing and it becomes a fad. Then as I was leaving the car dealership every guy there was smiling at me.
But it's been a long road. 2 car wrecks later, homeless forever, and heartbrake after heartbrake I am on the road again. My car suits me and the Club Steward who knows me ask me how things were going and I said I got a "chick car" which he said "you ain't driving that thing in here". No I told him but I have to pick them up and it is a huge blow to my confidence and we all know what confidence does for People.
So now that I got the ride let me show you what I mean. Girls would see my car or ask about it and I was embarrassed. Then I saw a new girl HB9 today in a hot car at work and saw her sit down right in front of me like hey boy. Of course I cracked down. And she has a really nice car and I told her about my car and that was the first time I didn't feel embarrassed. So yes I ain't driving it in the Club but every girl I date will have to see it or hear about so there you go. I would have no problem hitting on her or getting her number that's not the point. The point is I never would have brought up her car if I didn't feel good enough. That wouldn't have come up in my congruence levels. But since it did I told her she had a hot car since I was feeling confident in my own car. You see how that balances out? And the Club guy said last night it didn't matter! Well until you see a hot HB9 strolling into work in a red Mercedes then yeah I guess it matters. And she was very impressed to say the least and said it sounded very nice. Anyways I will get to her later. But in most situations the car thing is non-important. Also I barely ever talk about my car unless we are going somewhere and now that I am in a car I will be a lot more confident in picking chicks up when I always met them somewhere and never offered to pick them up. So I see a bright future ahead of me taking more control.
Have dreams and goals. I set these goals for the purpose of Pick Up. My brother bought some apartments so I got a place waiting for me once I am almost out of debt in 2 years. Then I will be set fully unleashing my PUA self at about 33 yrs old. I am a late bloomer but if you are young focus on getting ahead early by not totaling cars or getting a ton of credit cards. Those are my hugest downfalls. 2 totaled cars and 10 credit cars later I am finally getting back in the Game and down to one credit card. Also work a lot best way to be. And appreciate things since if you are stupid with money it has a way of taking away what you do have.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.