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    Default help me im poor

    hey guys, im new here. ive studied pickup for a while but never really applied it...until recently. Any who, theres this bar by house i go to, the bar tender there is a HB8. Been going there for a few months and she shows plenty of ioi's. we been texting, we have our inside jokes blah blah blah you get the picture. Now she has gone cold on me (which sucks cuz i had planned to go cold on her to increase her feelings for me, butttt she beat me to it i guess ops: ) i plan to just ride it out, dissapear for a bit ( no texting her, no going to the bar,no liking, commenting on IG pix ect) then things will go back to normal, the REAL problem i am having is im afraid to ask her out. in all these threads i read the guy bounces the femal, or goes and does something, well i cant do that, i just moved to this town a few months ago, im really broke, cant afford to take her anywhere so i dont even ask. i cant invite her over for a movie and a beer cuz my room only has a bed and my clothes in it which would be a total dlv.
    she does NOT know how poor i am right now and i intend on keeping it that way til i can get back on my feet. what options do i have to ask a girl out when money is so slim? helllp meee

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    Default Re: help me im poor

    1) You don't need money or a palace. The world is full of places to have sex if it leads that way and women often enjoy risky sex. You just need confidence and a connection.
    2) Bar girls are hard work. Read up on the many threads on here about bar girls. They are usually not worth your time and given your skills you might fail miserably. They are paid to make you want to come and drink there again and that can sap your wallet if your not careful. Better to keep her as a friend who says hi when you go for a beer. Forget whether she is cold on you or not. Be yourself and maintain being positive.
    3) Don't hide your situation, be honest about it.
    4) Try students, they are young, cute and also poor.
    5) Paradise is a state of mind.

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    Default Re: help me im poor

    the main situation isnt so much about the girl, chances are a month from now there will be a new girl, this one just so happens to have my attention currently. the main thing im wanting help with is any low to no cost cool date ideas. besides the obvious, which is a picnic and yea that works like a charm. but other than that im out of ideas. any input would be awesome

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    Default Re: help me im poor

    I have the same problem mate, had a lot of bad breaks in life. And I MEAN A LOT. But I just bought my dream car yesterday so now I can finally cross that off my Outer Game Agenda and thought I would be getting it in Phase 2 not Phase 1. Anyway been hitting the Gym 1.5 years got 4 tatts this year and my 5th next month. After that taking a year break from tatts and only 3 left.

    My tatts are sick now that I filled that spot. Peeps always commenting, asking, people just see my tatts and start talking about theirs or they talk about how bad they want one. 3 people at work got tatted after me likely due to my influence and even after I posted my Pink, Green, and Blue flames on FB? My FB buddy? Guess what? He fills his in with none other than Pink, Green, and Blue!!! So yeah people are crazy but I just do my own thing and it becomes a fad. Then as I was leaving the car dealership every guy there was smiling at me.

    But it's been a long road. 2 car wrecks later, homeless forever, and heartbrake after heartbrake I am on the road again. My car suits me and the Club Steward who knows me ask me how things were going and I said I got a "chick car" which he said "you ain't driving that thing in here". No I told him but I have to pick them up and it is a huge blow to my confidence and we all know what confidence does for People.

    So now that I got the ride let me show you what I mean. Girls would see my car or ask about it and I was embarrassed. Then I saw a new girl HB9 today in a hot car at work and saw her sit down right in front of me like hey boy. Of course I cracked down. And she has a really nice car and I told her about my car and that was the first time I didn't feel embarrassed. So yes I ain't driving it in the Club but every girl I date will have to see it or hear about so there you go. I would have no problem hitting on her or getting her number that's not the point. The point is I never would have brought up her car if I didn't feel good enough. That wouldn't have come up in my congruence levels. But since it did I told her she had a hot car since I was feeling confident in my own car. You see how that balances out? And the Club guy said last night it didn't matter! Well until you see a hot HB9 strolling into work in a red Mercedes then yeah I guess it matters. And she was very impressed to say the least and said it sounded very nice. Anyways I will get to her later. But in most situations the car thing is non-important. Also I barely ever talk about my car unless we are going somewhere and now that I am in a car I will be a lot more confident in picking chicks up when I always met them somewhere and never offered to pick them up. So I see a bright future ahead of me taking more control.

    Have dreams and goals. I set these goals for the purpose of Pick Up. My brother bought some apartments so I got a place waiting for me once I am almost out of debt in 2 years. Then I will be set fully unleashing my PUA self at about 33 yrs old. I am a late bloomer but if you are young focus on getting ahead early by not totaling cars or getting a ton of credit cards. Those are my hugest downfalls. 2 totaled cars and 10 credit cars later I am finally getting back in the Game and down to one credit card. Also work a lot best way to be. And appreciate things since if you are stupid with money it has a way of taking away what you do have.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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