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    Question Going to a Night Club

    I'm going to a night club this weekend and its always packed with gorgeous women. I've got no problem walking up talking to them and keeping a convo going but most of them have boyfriends that I'm cool with.

    How would I be able to do a Number Close on one of my "boys" girls, and if I end up getting the close, how long should I wait before texting her?
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    Default Re: Going to a Night Club

    Quote Originally Posted by My5t3rY75 View Post
    I'm going to a night club this weekend and its always packed with gorgeous women. I've got no problem walking up talking to them and keeping a convo going but most of them have boyfriends that I'm cool with.

    How would I be able to do a Number Close on one of my "boys" girls, and if I end up getting the close, how long should I wait before texting her?
    This makes no sense. you're going to a night club that is always packed with gorgeous women and yet you need to hit on girls that date people you know? Are you saying that you'll only approach women that you already know, otherwise this really makes no sense to me. BTW, a true artist has plenty of. choice he could never hit on women in relationships and still prosper.

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    Default Re: Going to a Night Club

    What do you mean by your "boys" girls? I Number Close on a planned activity like a drink or something fun with a date to make the number solid. Have her text you first so it looks like she is "chasing" you.

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    Default Re: Going to a Night Club

    I have to agree with Kino here. That's pretty messed up going after friends 'that you are cool with' girls. Can potentially bring a lot of unnecessary drama. Just game the other gorgeous women in the club.

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    Default Re: Going to a Night Club

    Nightclub you said? That's my turf! Tearing it up lately and must say I tend to gravitate more towards the Bar since it presents more of a challenge. But anyways don't go for some dudes chick. Like forget that noise. There's plenty of gorgeous women who don't play those kinda games. I got wrapped up with this female once who lied about not having a BF and then her BF started texting me like a Psycho and I was like I was here first? Like whatever. The minute girl mentions those 3 dreaded words "I have a Boyfriend" checkmate I am out. And I make some pretty exaggerated exits when I find it out. I may make a total break from it entirely and never go after another chick who has a BF. Like so done. If they ain't got time for me then forget it, I don't want any girl drama in my life anymore.
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    Default Re: Going to a Night Club

    For nightclub game sometimes less is more. I just act like Im out for a great time, chat to many people both girls and guys and don't put too much pressure on gaming numbers up front unless it's a time constraint situation 'hey I gotta get going but whats your number?'. It seems to happen more naturally like that. You exude more confidence and it takes the pressure away. More random things are likely to happen you didn't first expect like girls asking for your number instead. Almost every other guy is out there acting like a hungry carnivore. You need to act like the carnivore thats already been fed.

    Key for me is also being part of a big group that helps get new introductions and social value. If you don't have a big group try and merge into another by making friends, sharing tables or appearing like you are part of a bigger group. Sometimes bouncing from one club to the next, if appropriate, is worthwhile. I seem to get more confident going into different places in one night and you have more momentum rather than being a fixture...you are not the guy who has been standing there all night at one spot. Instead you go into many places and talk to girls straight away. Rather than trying to always directly go for number closes I will initially ask a girl or group of girls over to our group and position myself as a leader of such a large circle of social people. It lowers their nightclub defense mechanisms and you can start getting more intimate with Kino.


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