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Thread: If You're Not Having Fun, You're Doing It Wrong!

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    Default If You're Not Having Fun, You're Doing It Wrong!

    I just wanted to take a minute and share this with you guys. I see a lot of guys (in real life and here on the forums) say they are having problems with their game - what do they have to do to pick up girls?

    The answer is simple:

    DON'T GO OUT TO PICK UP GIRLS! GO OUT TO HAVE FUN! and while you're having fun talk to girls ... but not just girls ... EVERYONE! Stop making your nights out a mission to pick up babes. I PROMISE you - this will take you SOOOOO FAR! Learning the Venusian Arts will take you the rest of way, but if you aren't having fun and are just there to try and pick up girls it is INSTANTLY telegraphed and everything else you do means nothing.

    Again, I wanted to share this - and also as a reminder to myself, because sometimes I get into the wrong Mindset and those nights are never as fun for me. If I go out to have fun, then - whether I close with a girl or not - at least I still had fun and I don't go home and cry as I masturbate.

    I promise you guys. It works.

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    Default Re: If You're Not Having Fun, You're Doing It Wrong!

    I think if its not too much we should see about adding something about leading and what leading really means because as a principal we seem forget that we don't have to stay with the girl as our main goal it can be but shouldn't be limited to it. Why? Because there are so many more possibilities just to have fun with. It doesnt really matter about what you're limited to but you can change the rules and make them work in your favor by turning a situation with only one option with many more. What i mean is if you're in public and talking and getting to know everyone you should be able to amp up the energy to get more people willing to open up and feel positive. The more comfortable they are to you the more likely you'll make new connections and sometimes you can meet stroger possibilities of dates or ONS.

    If you make everything about the girl you might lose yourself really fast. Don't forget you have a life outside of this woman and the time you've known her. Value yourself and value your time, trust yourself to be able to take care of yourself so newer experiences can help you grow into a more refined version that you are willing to live. When you look back you don't want to miss out on all the fun. Neither does anyone else--people will gravitate to a person who fits what they're looking for. And most people are looking for someone of value to them because the investment of 'fun' is positive, enjoyable and memorable. From here you'll be more social. You can then start to master social skills to be able to be well versed with a woman of diction and another woman who is cultured and maybe this all happens through social growth and conversation. We all want the easy answer and sadly most of the PUA's 1st generation were too focused on sex and women when true happiness comes from balance in goals and skills to be able to continue and approach new ideas and goals for the future. Women are great but no woman is going to want a man who can't manage his own social life when she is gone. Many more things could be added here but i think you guys get the gist.

    You don't have to be at the top of the social group ladder to a woman, you just need to be able to take care of things and sometimes you gotta initiate to begin to fix things. Ugh, so much more to add but later...

    .... Lol
    As Bon Jovi once said, its your life, its now or never.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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