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Thread: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

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    Thumbs down How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    There's this girl I've been dating for a month or so. She is angry over nothing so I would really like you guys to help me out on this one?? She wants to take control of the relationship and wants to have all the power but when I don't let her have that control, she gets super angry. How do I deal with such?

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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    You're asking for advice but you only said you have a problem and havent said what the problem is.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    Why is she angry? If she is getting bored, you just need to break more rapport. Don't let her lead the relationship. If you guys are really serious, then you can take more of a balance, but you should always be leading.
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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    if she gets angry for no reason she clearly has unresolved issues. The question is do you want to deal with that kind of attitude? arent you better than that? The best way is to make it clear her anger issues and control are not right and that you need some time to think- give it a weeks rest. Go meet a girl and ask her out and show her u are in control of your own life.

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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    Hard to tell if her anger is justified. If you're a control freak and have to have it your way all the time then I understand her frustration. If she just feels uncomfortable with a strong man then she has got some issues.

    And you worrying about her getting bored puts you at a liability to act as a dancing monkey for her. Don't worry about you boring her, but her boring you. You don't always have to keep things exciting. I've stolen girls away from guys where they told me all he does is wanna go out and do crazy things. He never wants to cuddle to a movie.

    All good relationships are about give and take. Understand this and you will have a successful one. BUT that doesn't mean every woman understands this and that they are built for a healthy relationship. If she has to have to power all the time then she doesn't understand this concept. But if you are too worried about losing power for a sec then you need to re-evaluate the situation.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    She is saying that our conversation are boring and there is nothing productive so she doesn't feel like talking to me anymore.

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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    Say: 'Okay!' walk away and see if she comes crawling back.

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    Default Re: How do I make sure the girl does not get bored and move on?

    Well, firstly, coming out and saying "she's angry about nothing" really tells me you're missing the bigger picture about something, and instead of trying to understand the REAL reasons she mad, you're dismissing her, which is really hurting your repport with her. Remember women want to feel emotionally connected and emotionally secure. So by dismissing her feelings as "crazy talk" you're only justifying the doubts she's building in her mind.

    She's telling you the conversations are boring is her telling you that you're boring. You're not being alpha. Women was adventure, excitement, fun, unpredictability. Men want consistency and stability, and tend to maintain the status quo.


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