Ok so I think ill post follow up on this thread.

Thank you to everyone who posted advice and insight.

We went out for coffee her and I on Thursday night and got to know eachother.
Then last night she called me while I was at a club with my friends and told me to come outside where she kidnapped me and brought me to another club were her friends were.
... they were all smoking hot.. (but mines the best ;P)

It was a good night, and overall a good field report.

I was a little worried midway thru the text game but clearly I was overthinking and learnt to just keep calm and do my thing for future gaming.