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    Default Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    So I have two situations in clothing stores and don't know how to handle them can someone help me out?

    Situation 1 : you go to store and see hot cashier or worker whhats a good opening?

    Situation 2: you see a cute girl shopping. how do you open?

    I'm new to pua so I could use as much advice as possible!

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    I've never gotten a number (mostly because I didn't try) at a clothing store, but they are actually really easy to open. Especially since they will always come to you and ask if you need help. I tend to get eye balled by them as I walk in anyway because I wear all designer clothes in the first place (some of which you can't even buy at the same mall). I just will start talking to them about what I'm looking for and explain I'm looking for something for a specific outfit and then talk about what I look best in coming in and out of the dressing room. If you build some rapport and don't have other employees in your direct vicinity it shouldn't be too hard to pry her number out.

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    Thanks man! I'll be trying this out today we'll see how it works out

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    You can even pretend your buying a gift for a little sister or something and you need a girl with style to help you pick out the right thing.

    throw in some attraction and game, and maybe with the right logistics and timing you can set yourself up for an insta-date at the mall.

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    Never had any luck with this. Curious to see how it went. Well let's say I came real close.

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    This is a Hired Gun game. There only thing you need is the ability to not creep them out. Never go in for the number unless the ioi's are screaming at you
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    Didnt work out but ill try again another time. Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    Lol ok. You know you can get more advice if you give us something to work off of.

    Personally i like to build and break enough rapport till they feel like asking me questions about me rather then why i'm there. At this point i know they're trying to do the same with me. This means i've gotten passed their Hired Gun walls--and it lets me choose where and how exactly i'd like to proceed. I can choose to direct the conversation to be direct about why i'm really there or leading things in-direct with more escalating flirtation to better gauge how interested they are.

    Never go for the number just to get the number. Never ask for the number until their ioi's are screaming at you. Learn to flirt but most importantly learn to read facial expressions and body language
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    Also pay attention to where they go and what they do. Sometimes, a girl who work there will seemingly follow you around the store without approaching you as a salesperson. That may sound like a subtle ioi but women are often very subtle in showing interest.

    When u open, make fun of some price of clothing or look at her and ask if this would look on me. It should be something rather out there. Again, this is a girl who didn't approach you as a sales person ...maybe she just dresses the mannequins or does stocking. So her ioi would be more genuine.

    One time this dynamite girl was doing this exact same thing to me... Just walking around fixing clothing on racks. Sometimes she would arrange stuff that was already pretty good. So my PUA brain was screaming at me to talk to her.

    But unfortunately, I was there with my mom so I froze. There were also alot of people standing in line waiting to pay and kinda just looking at anything, including me. I was pretty new to the game and all at the time. But now I know how to handle it. Just walk away, browse clothes and see if the girl follows you to a spot not so out in the open.
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    Default Re: Approaching Women in Clothing Stores

    Hey man whats up? I like newbies so I'm going to help you out.

    I'm going to talk about situation two since I feel that situation 1 has been well answered.

    You just go up to her smile and say: 'I saw you and I just had to come over and say hi'

    Her: (I don't give fark what she says)
    PUA: So I'm looking for a gift for my cousin she's about your age and has the same style could you help me out? Honestly i wanted to get her something like your shirt (dress, shoes, necklace, bracelet,... ) but I see a lot of people wearing like it so I'm kind of stumped
    Her: (Hopefully she'll say yes, I'm not goig to bullshit you by saying there is a reject proof method of getting women, game is played in the face of rejection)
    PUA: (dhv Story)
    Her: (Random shit)
    PUA: Name three things that make you intresting
    Her:three things
    Pua: Cool then Fluff talk (where are you from?...)
    Pua: what's you passion in life?
    Her: x
    PUA: Qualify then n-close
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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