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Thread: Talking With Girls

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    Default Talking With Girls

    So my friend just asked me to hang out with her tomorrow so we're going to be out all day along and gosh am I worried. She has been my friend for a long time but since we went to different schools we have never really had a long time that we have spent with each other. I'm not really attracted to her in that way or anything but I don't want our rendezvous to be weird and have awkward moments. Do you have any idea of what I should talk about with her to keep it nice and exciting. The reason i'm posting this on PUA is because although i'm not trying to pick her up or anything, she is a girl and it can help me conquer my social anxiety when around women. Please give as much advice as you have! Thanks

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    Default Re: Talking With Girls

    look, spending time with female friends isn't much different from talking to girls you want. the only difference is that you don't use any Direct Game with female friends.

    stay calm cool and collected. speak whatever is on your mind. odds are it will be the typical long distance friend talk.

    "how've you been?

    are you still doing (insert a hoby or job or anything else she does) ?

    do you still have that necklace I gave you? I want it back lol jk

    have you traveled much lately?

    you already know her, think about where she was in life when you last saw her and ask her about stuff. I'm sure you'll have no problem catching up with her. now go have fun and don't be so damn analytical about this stuff.

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    Default Re: Talking With Girls

    I would have to agree for the most part.
    Although I personally practice gaming EVERYONE. at least to some extent.

    I focus on being spontaneous & using situational humor with everyone from ladies at the checkout register, to waiters/waitresses, to salespeople, to my boss... Etc.

    I do that so everything starts to become second nature & I don't have to think about it... It all just begins to flow naturally.

    I would recommend gaming people you're not romantically interested in, as well as the ones you are.

    Reason being, you won't be worried about the outcome when you're practicing on them.


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    Default Re: Talking With Girls

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    I would have to agree for the most part.
    Although I personally practice gaming EVERYONE. at least to some extent.

    I focus on being spontaneous & using situational humor with everyone from ladies at the checkout register, to waiters/waitresses, to salespeople, to my boss... Etc.

    I do that so everything starts to become second nature & I don't have to think about it... It all just begins to flow naturally.

    I would recommend gaming people you're not romantically interested in, as well as the ones you are.

    Reason being, you won't be worried about the outcome when you're practicing on them.
    That is actually good advice. I'll remember that, thanks.

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    Default Re: Talking With Girls

    My Social reaction system as MM calls it doesn't activate until I see some "game" and I go live. Nothing can replace that feeling. Sure on kinda cute girls it is somewhat stimulated but they mostly believe they are not good enough for me. I don't believe in second chances since I have yet to get one in the Game. So make it happen and make it count.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Talking With Girls

    Awkward moments can be funny depending on how you handle them. I would recommend in silent moments with wonderig eye contact to just talk about whats new, whats going on or your opinion on something. Or ask things about the other person. People love talking about themselves
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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