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    Default Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    Well guys there is a HB9 in my economics class. Me and my bro were coming out and messing around to wait on her to get behind us. He has a girlfriend so when we were going out I was going to hold the door but he got ahead of me and did it. Didn't expect this because he has a girl. He was like sorry man, habit for a good looking girl. On the way out further almost to our car he says so did you understand anything our teacher said? (he was foreign). She was like yah some of my family is from (wherever he was from) and so she is used to it. I laughed and said I noticed he put you down for Pepsi when you said you don't even like soda and she just kind of laughed and went on about how she doesn't even like soda etc. Then we both went our separate ways not saying anything.

    How should I approach her next time, what should I say? Not sure if she has a boyfriend or not lol.

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    If I were you, I would have continued the conversation from there. Find hooks, words with which you can bring up stories of a humorous nature, or of a more deep nature (Did you have ever have one of those experiences that changed your outlook on life?) along with stories that can be exciting and show your positive qualities. Either way, they should be interesting. Try to get her engaged in the conversation and make it fun; flirt with her.

    When you try to open her don't ask anything generic like class, work, or stuff that everyone has already asked her. There are threads for openers on this forum if you look.

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    Just talk to her about her interests. Get her talking, figure out what she likes, calibrate and go from there. You might not even want to talk to her once you find out the type of girl she is.

    The worst thing that happens is you get friend zoned, and you make another girl friend to add to your social proof. Once you get a social circle, its a like a ball rolling down hill. You wont be able to stop.

    Talking to girls is the easiest part.

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    Just a normal hi, go in small talk to find out more about her and seek to get into personal conversation.

    If you come across as an attractive man, everything else will be easier

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    You didn't offer her a ride home?

    You've talked to her so next time will be easy. She should not ignore you and you can start talking about new topics and as others mentioned, things outside of college. Life, the universe and everything. Although class can be used for humor or anchoring common interests. She will probably let you know if she has a boyfriend pretty quick and if she has a boyfriend and doesn't mention it possibly it's a sign she likes you. I often simply ask girls if they have a boyfriend. It's not a risky question in my opinion and that intel can save valuable time.

    But i would not worry if she has a boyfriend anyway. Build attraction, dhv, get her opening up about her passions and asking you questions. Keep making her laugh.

    You can start mild Kino anytime...a touch here and there when saying something dramatic. Don't be sleazy, just playful and confident. That will subliminally help avoid friendzoning and can get flirtation cooking. Kino can actually relax girls and build comfort. It's a sign of physical confidence which women love (survival, protection etc). Also observe her body language. Next time is she pleased to see you? Does she play with her hair? Does she copy your poses and maintain eye contact? Is she enthusiastic about the conversation? Actually if she is pleased to see you next time make her work for your attention a bit.

    If all goes well campus is a good place for ambiguous dates like 'let's have lunch together' or 'you're heading to the library? Me too...I'll walk you over, we can study together' but quickly move towards romance if things go well. You could even kiss close down an isolated library isle. Just be confident. If she is from another country you may already have an elevated status in her mind. Actually if you're not afraid to say where she is from I can help more as ive dated women from almost every part of the world.

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    Had a class with her this mornin before I ready most of the posts. Came in contact with her after the class. My bro was behind me and I opened the door real fast for somer reason and I almost hit her but he caught it. He's like dude you almost hit the girl out loud and I was like sorry. So she keeps walking infront of us and I asked her if she understood what the professor was talking about in class etc. and she explained, then I asked if I really almost hit her. She laughed and said no I know how to catch a door. I said good I don't wana be they guy just hitting girls with doors haha. She respond yah I wouldn't like that I would get mad. Them my bro interrupted when I said not too ad ruined the rest. Most convos are about 400 ft worth of walking from class to parking lot. Have I ruined my chances? She gives off this vibe like she knows I'm flirting but I'm not sure

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    You were totally beta...
    When your "bro" called you out for almost hitting her with the door, you got all supplicative & pretty much begged for approval/ forgiveness.

    You SHOUD HAVE made a joke & just owned it...
    "Yeah, I was trying to leave a welt on her forehead, but my aim is waaaaaay off; I need more practice."

    Then wink & smile at her & say, " I'm sorry about that, I'm a klutz at times. You should totally kick my ass."
    * wink/smile again.

    Don't be over-apolagetic... But don't be a douchebag either.

    Make a joke about the situation first...THEN give her a small (yet sincere) apology, followed by another quick joking comment.

    THAT expresses confidence.


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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    I only said sorry once. After the door almost hit her I just kind of laughed and stopped and said my bad. Then I sped up talked to her and said all the stuff above. Any tips for next time? Should I make a joke about almost hitting her?

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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    If you're gonna bring up the door thing again, do it once... And then move on.

    But you can totally use it...

    Next time you see her say "what's up door stop?".
    Then smile, wink, and elbow nudge her.

    But pe prepared to LEAD the interaction. Be confident & she'll be hooked.


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    Default Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how?

    Haha, alright I like that one. I need to get more experience with this I guess. I feel like I'm a naturally confident guy and have no problem just talking to people, but I see where you are coming from where I was begging for approval.I just need practice saying the correct things I guess. I will use the door stop one and lead it into further conversation hopefully. I told my friend to let me just talk to her and stay back a little bit because if there is even a slight pause he tries to interject and it just messes everything up and makes it awkward. I'm trying to make myself not care if I fail or not because I know I am learning, either I get it or I don't, but I will try.


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