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Thread: "Do you think I'm cute?"

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    Default "Do you think I'm cute?"

    This is what she asked me while texting, and these are the only 2 ways I could think of to respond.

    Honesty - "Yes."

    Or

    Escalating/Flirting - "Come over here and I'll show you. "


    I'm stuck. How should I have replied to this type of question?

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    Default Re: "Do you think I'm cute?"

    Have you met this girl? If you haven't met her and are only going by photos you could re-inforce needing to meet by saying 'I haven't even met you yet'. If you have met her it's ok to say they are cute. A simple 'yes' is fine. You give her the honest answer but don't expand on it too much. Ultimately it should be a good sign if she's asking that question so don't think of it as a sticking point. It's a huge opportunity to flirt and build attraction.

    You could say it less enthusiastically like 'sure, of course' as if you always talk to good looking girls and it's not the most important thing. That will also make it ambigous for her...you're saying yes but not going overboard...she will still have to keep trying to win your approval.

    You could switch it towards sexual escalation 'you're quite sexy'.

    Or seed the idea of you two together and get her to answer back a higher level question 'Yeah, you're cute, we would look good together don't you think?'.

    Or be playful 'you're as cute as a 2 week old puppy'.

    Or sarcastic/teasing 'No, you're very ugly...it's your money I'm attracted to '.

    It's ok to compliment a girl - it's the way you do it that counts. If she is shy or average looking compliment her. If she is a Stripper or model or something then you can do something opposite because she already knows she is cute and you're attracted.

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    Default Re: "Do you think I'm cute?"

    depends on the situation.

    If shes insecure, then yeah compliment her, but its still best to stay away from compliments on a girls looks. I still do it, but that's just to MAKE SURE my intentions are known right off the bat. Then instantly disqualify.

    example: Hey Suzy, you're fucking cute as hell, its just too bad you're not a blonde or into riding motorcycles or i'd REALLY be interested.

    It's a classic example of a Push Pull^

    The best way to handle girls fishing for compliments is to just be playful about it.

    I'd respond, "Oh yeah, I bet 50 Cent would think you're adorable."
    "oh yeah, you're cute, I bet you pull ALL the middle school boys. "

    Things like that.^

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    Default Re: "Do you think I'm cute?"

    "Yes. Anyways......(divert to another topic)"

    "Yes, I think I'm cute"

    "You're adorable you remind me of my stuffed toy, Peechy"

    "fark no! lol"
    "just kidding"

    "Yeah, you're actually almost as cute as me"

    "I think you're really cute... Here's a cookie"

    It actually depends on what frame you've set from the beginning. Remember whatever you say, it has to be aligned to your personality or it won't work.

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    Default Re: "Do you think I'm cute?"

    "Yes, you are. You are the cutest girl in the world. They should have you featured in magazine cover every week."

    Give her a Yes and exaggerate it.

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    Default Re: "Do you think I'm cute?"

    Quote Originally Posted by CapPickup View Post
    "Yes, I think I'm cute"
    This is the best one. Use that. She will have to laugh. It's a perfect example of playful teasing, dhv and switching it around back on her.


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