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    Default improving body language

    I'm trying to improve my body language. Are there any good articles/books/videos available or does anyone have any suggestions for improving body language.

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    Default Re: improving body language

    "How to Talk to Anyone" by Leil Lowndes

    "The Art of Speed Reading People" by Paul and Barbara Tieger

    Those two books touch on communication both visual and aural. There are also some good documentaries on body language and some can be found on youtube and one of them is a series of documentaries from Channel 4 (United Kingdom) called "Body Talk". It was a show that dealt with a lot of the stuff from PUA and one episode dealt with things like ioi (Indicators of Interest). The whole show is heavily based on body language as the name implies.

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    Default Re: improving body language

    There are a few threads on this forum for that. Just try the search engine.

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    Default Re: improving body language

    I haven't really read too many books on the subject of body language, but just followed the advice of some of my wings who've had success with women and I've done the same. I follow the mirroring / matching technique from NLP and I usually show 10% less interest in body language than the women unless she is 100% invested in me (her body turned towards me) where I reward her with 100% body language on her as well.

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    Default Re: improving body language

    Here are 2 tips that will HUGELY improvement your body language and how people see you.

    Tip 1) Avoiding nodding too often when talking to a girl. Constant nodding is a sign of submission and conveys that you are a person of low confidence. Avoid doing this!

    Tip 2) Mirror her body language! Do not go overboard with this because it will become obvious but women love a man who she can find commonalities with. So if you mirror her body language, she will feel A LOT more comfortable and open when around you. Remember that over 90% of communication is body language!

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    Default Re: improving body language

    Just pay attention to what you're making other people feel.

    If people are not paying attention to you, maybe you need to open your body up more and create that feeling of a dominant presence.

    If people are creeped out by you, maybe you are leaning in too much.

    There are so many little different things that you can change that honestly... you may never see.

    What you really need is a coach my friend.


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