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Thread: HB9 Father Is Dying. How to seduce her?

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    Question HB9 Father Is Dying. How to seduce her?

    Well hello fellas
    I'm Sim and I'm new to the pua-forums and all theese pua-learnings aswell. I would say I'm quite experienced in picking up girls in general but in this case I don't have a farkin clue what to do.


    THE STORY

    So I closed a number from a HB9 at Tinder last week and we have messaged back and forth ever since.

    I make her laugh and I've built up an interest without seeming needy and I've got her to open up about the deep stuff which is cool. Overall, my approach C&F is working great on her.

    A few days ago I invited her out for an adventure. We've had some great chats and the energy in the conversation was really sexy. However what I got as an reply was she telling me her father was dying in cancer, she had left town and that she was not in the best mood for it right now (understandable ofcourse).

    After she told me, I was shocked and my game changed from being C&F to be understanding and loving instead. I don't know if it was a good thing or not but it felt right at the time. I asked her about her dad, told her my stories about similar experiences and tried to be really understanding and caring. The result: She opened up to me even more!

    The problem is now that I don't have a clue to take this relationsship further from now. She is a great girl and I dont want to stop talking to her. It doesn't feel right to be C&F, make her laugh and try to seduce her at this stage. Her focus is on her dad and I understand that seeing some guy from Tinder is not in her agenda right now.

    My game has changed and so has her replies (she is very short in text and I can tell that she is very sad and distant).


    How would you handle it from now?
    Anyone experienced this situation before?


    P.S. She is not using her dad as an excuse. This is 100% real guys.

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    Default Re: HB9 Father Is Dying. How to seduce her?

    Steer clear of friending her. Be understanding and comfort her only when you are trying to escalate things forward. Her situation with dad is whatever reall. As heart breaking as it is if he's not on his death bed then game her as usual trying to be the positive exciting thing in her life since everything else is negative and surrounded by the idea of death. Did you find out what stage? Try to. It might help.

    To be hones though sometimes these dramatic situations can be very good for oppurtunities but you have to pay attention to signs that she's looking for a distraction and often you will have to lead. Dont hold back your intent. Respect the space but be clear about what you are there for. Yes the situation is messed up but it really has nothing to do with you. You dont owe her anything. You dont want to be her friend or family comforting her. You want to be the lover who comforts and gets her.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: HB9 Father Is Dying. How to seduce her?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Steer clear of friending her. Be understanding and comfort her only when you are trying to escalate things forward. Her situation with dad is whatever reall. As heart breaking as it is if he's not on his death bed then game her as usual trying to be the positive exciting thing in her life since everything else is negative and surrounded by the idea of death. Did you find out what stage? Try to. It might help.
    Thanks for your reply artandale. It made me clearify a few things in my head. I took charge of the situation and got back being the positive guy, not focusing on how she feels to much. I can tell she appriciate me even more now.

    He's on hes death bed so it's only a matter of time. So sad


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