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    Default How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    So there is this girl that goes to my school. She isn't in any of my classes so I don't really get to talk to her. I'm also a bit on the shy side so I haven't talked to her. She is really pretty and a lot of guys are after her, but none of them have the balls to really talk to her. I wan't to message her on fb because i'm pretty certain she will respond back and it will be a good conversation but I need a cool opener to use that is jsut casual and not creepy. Do you guys have any good ones I can use?

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    How about you approach her in real life ? Dont be scared and grow someballs, grab her number take her and make her your girlfriend if you want.

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    Don't message her on FB. That's the pussy way to do it and I guarantee a bunch of other guys are doing the same thing. Have you ever noticed how many friends hot girls have on FB? It's because guys are constantly bombarding them on there.

    You should approach her when you see her at school. Walk straight up to her and say hi with a smile. If you're not sure what to say after that tell her you like her shoes. Then let the conversation flow from there. Don't try to think of what you'll say next. That kills conversations. Just go with the flow and you will be fine.

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Don't message her on FB. That's the pussy way to do it and I guarantee a bunch of other guys are doing the same thing. Have you ever noticed how many friends hot girls have on FB? It's because guys are constantly bombarding them on there.

    You should approach her when you see her at school. Walk straight up to her and say hi with a smile. If you're not sure what to say after that tell her you like her shoes. Then let the conversation flow from there. Don't try to think of what you'll say next. That kills conversations. Just go with the flow and you will be fine.
    This. Don't approach her on FB, she can always ignore your messages. Trust me I've tried in the past. However, if you talk to her face-to-face, she can't ignore you. None of the guys have the balls to really talk to her, then there is your chance. Separate yourself from the other guys, and show you have balls by actually talking to her.

    Conversation flows naturally when you are feeling comfortable and confident. Try watching some videos/doing some things that boost your confidence.

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    Girls love the courage needed for a guy to approach them in real life. Just make it happen and don't worry about the consequences too much. Next time you see her approach, no matter the circumstances. The more difficult the better

    If you really have to go via Facebook you don't actually need an opener. You can just add her and if she accepts then start casually chatting and escalating. Again most other guys might be tuning her with lots of fancy openers trying to impress her. Often it's better to just be yourself and treat her like a friend at first. Less if often more.

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    Grow some balls dude. If you can't evens say hi to her... How are you going to ravage her?

    Stop being so shy. Break out of your cage!

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    what if you don't know the girl from "outside life"? I just saw a nice girl on facebook and click add as a friend (just 8 mutual friends )

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    Razz / tease her like you've known her for years.
    Be bold & fun. Flirt...

    Don't just "like" pictures & posts she makes, but make comments o get her all riled up.

    Example:
    If she posts a picture of a cake she made, tell her there's no way SHE made that... And that she probably secretly had a friend bake it.

    Just get into the mix & have fun!


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: How Do You Open To Girl On FB

    Yeah just contact her IRL and playfully tease and challenge her.


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