I am currently at the stage now here I am trying to improve my skill at attracting women.
I am currently using the M3 and the Magic Bullets structure to guide me through the different aspects of learning, i know the material is old, but these methods seem to be the only ones I can find that have structure that i can base my learning on.
My plan is to learn each stage then eventually, once i understand everything be able to mix it all up and think on my feet and then naturally begin to attract women.
I have a few questions about Attraction and wondered if anyone one could shed some light. As I understand it below are the main elements or building blocks you need to attract women.
1. DHV stories (containing DHV spikes to trigger attraction switches)
2. DHV routines (fun games/cold reads/teach them something cool or interesting)
3. Negs (backhanded playful comments - make out you are not hitting on girls)
4. Disqualification (making out that she is not your type - you are not attracted to her or phased by her)
5.push-pull (flirting - verbally &/or non verbally - giving an IOI followed by an IOD)
6. Cocky + Funny routines (having the confidence to hold your frame and be funny)
7. Cat String Theory (be hard to get - give her your attention then take it away when)
My question is that I am getting massively confused by the concept of Negs/Disqualification/push-pull/cocky - funny and cat string theory, when looking for information on these elements they seem to all be the same kind of thing for example:
Neg - "you have really pretty eye's.....especially the left one!"
Neg - "I really like your nails are they real?..no?....oohh.. .ok... well...i guess they're still nice!"
Neg - (non-verbal) performing a back turn on her after a fun conversation
now these are described as Negs - but to me they seem exactly the same concept as push-push / disqualification / being cocky + funny and Cat string theory?
So I am interested to know - should I be looking at each one in turn and learning how to incorporate them or are they basically all of the same thing??
what's basically happening in my head when I am out talking to girls is this:
My Brain - (Right ok neg the target......urrrrmmm m think of a neg.....look at her and neg her about something!!!)
My Brain - right.....ok Disqualify yourself quick) "you know, too bad your blonde or you'd so be my type"
My Brain - (ok now push-pull her to build attraction.........o k......think of a way to compliment her then push her away.......errrm) "you know your really interesting.....if i was a nerd I would so be digging you right now"
My Brain - (ok she laughed that was good.....now be cocky and funny......wait I thought the last one was cocky funny, no that was push-pull......what the hell is cocky funny then FFS)
My Brain - (oh shit.....you just asked for her name and what she did for a living......thats AFC.....you've blown it dude, you might get a sympathy number but that's about it....it will be a wrong number!)
basically I have no idea whether these elements of attraction are all the same and should just be treated as one thing or if each element needs to be worked on section by section.........
Any help or tips on learning attraction material would be much appreciated!! my brain just gets stuck if you said to me - go neg that girl or do push-pull now or disqualify yourself or be cocky funny now - I just can't turn that on like a switch because I am not really sure what I should be learning and when I should use a neg or a disqualifier or whether i should push-pull or be cocky funny.....cause they all basically seem to be THE SAME FRIGGIN THING!!