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Thread: no more number closes!

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    Arrow no more number closes!

    tired of getting lots of flakes? yeah me too.

    I have found that a lot of the time, getting a girls number isn't the best option. I mean think about it, you approach a girl, talk for maybe 10-20 minutes get her number and then what? you spend hours texting her only to come up empty handed when she won't go out with you. or if even if you do get her hooked and end up going out with her, you end up investing a lot of time into getting the lay. in particular, you have a lot of "in between" time tied up in texting or phone game. imo this "in between" time is all unnecessary effort.

    now to be honest with you, I don't particularly like spending time "entertaining" the girl over text. and honestly my text game is not on par with my "in-person" game. so to make up for it, I like to just cut it altogether if possible

    that's right, I decided that a great way to avoid flakes is simple, don't be satisfied with a Number Close. instead talk to her for as long as possible and push to Isolate her as fast as possible. don't leave the set until you get flat out rejected completely or until you fark your target.

    now of course there are times when the number close is more appropriate, but don't expect girls to answer your calls or to meet you after texting, because most of the time they don't.

    the opportunity to win is while you're still talking to her for the first time. at least kiss her the day you meet her, and you will be able to avoid having flakes.

    essentially when you push your sets to the limit, you avoid getting number from girls who "just want friends" or from girls who aren't very interested.

    my challenge to you is simple: don't get a number close until you are at least 1-2 hours into the set or until you have at least kissed your target.

    as a rule of thumb, the longer you talk to her, the more likely she will want to meet up with you later on.

    while text game is nice, I feel like it is largely a waste of time.

    meteora

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    Default Re: no more number closes!

    Lol thats a lot of free time for 1 to 2 hours during day game hahaha
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: no more number closes!

    Very true. Unless you REALLY connect with a girl, if you don't kiss her, she will flake 80 percent of the time.

    I don't waste my time with text game either. If I get a girls number I call her and set something up. This way you waste no time and find out very fast if she's interested.

    90 percent of the time if you kiss her the first time you meet her, she will meet you again. If you bang her that night it rises to 99% (that's if YOU decide to see her again).

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    Default Re: no more number closes!

    Very good post meteora, Ive given up on numbers now completely. When I meet a girl at night, I always go for One Night Stand first- when it fails, I get number. Its better to meet a girl at a venue where you will always see you( church, work) then ask after you've known them a while

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    Default Re: no more number closes!

    makes sense imma try this also i hate the texting games girls love to play

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    Default Re: no more number closes!

    Mystery says Skype ID is way better!
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    Default Re: no more number closes!

    Yes I agree. I can get a Number Close very easy but 80% of the time don't result in nothing. But if you can't get a insta date or bounce do to a time constraint, focus much more on qualification to reduce flakes. Well at least that's my sticking point at the moment


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