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Thread: How do I Pick up in a High Male to Women Ratio.

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    Default How do I Pick up in a High Male to Women Ratio.

    Hey all ,

    Lets start of by saying i am new ... very new .. matter of fact this is my first post lets dig in on what im having trouble with :

    I work in an oil field ... basically means i only get 2-3 days off that"s when i head to town and get to socializes.

    second issue i live in a city where the male ratio is 3 times higher that that of women.... so basically im put in position where women get to pick and choose .. yes even the ugly ones ... and im surrounded by rich kids that try to buy female attention

    Third i was in a casual relationship but i broke it off only to want the girl i broke up with ... kinda stupid if u asks me and i dont understand why i feel this way ... worst of all .. now shes realizes this and is
    suddenly busy and stuff ...

    HELP!!!

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    Default Re: How do I Pick up in a High Male to Women Ratio.

    I work in an oil field ... basically means i only get 2-3 days off that"s when i head to town and get to socializes
    you really got to make the most out of those few days off. but really that's what everyone who works does. the reality is that most pua's only sarge on weekends anyways. (because lets face it, you don't want to stay out till 4 in the morning and go to work at 8. )

    most guys I know only go out to bars and clubs maybe 5 times a month at most. you'll be able to get out often enough.

    second issue i live in a city where the male ratio is 3 times higher that that of women.... so basically im put in position where women get to pick and choose .. yes even the ugly ones ... and im surrounded by rich kids that try to buy female attention
    look, those "rich guys" who "buy female attention" don't get laid. women just use them for their money. if you don't believe me, go offer to buy drinks for ten different girls, see what responses you get. most likely you'll get a few "thanks" or maybe you'll get to talk to her till she finishes her drink and wants another one.

    trust me, buying drinks or gifts for girls only gets you laid on valentines day lol

    that said, if you want to win in an environment with far fewer females to males, you just have to be more dominant than the other guys.

    just think, half those guys are chumps who will do anything to get laid. most of the time, you don't even have to compete with them.

    you want to be the guy who does what he wants, goes after what he wants, and doesn't apologize for anything.
    be crude, and don't be afraid to tell woman "no!" when they ask you for favors or drinks or to drive them places. if you do these things, you will be ahead of a lot of the guys in your city by a longshot.


    Third i was in a casual relationship but i broke it off only to want the girl i broke up with ... kinda stupid if u asks me and i dont understand why i feel this way ... worst of all .. now shes realizes this and is
    suddenly busy and stuff ...
    she's not coming back. and even if she did, she would try to make you do things on her terms (witch is not acceptable at all!) once a woman has any kind of power over you, you lose. you're better off not wasting your time with her anymore. you broke things off with her for a reason.

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    Default Re: How do I Pick up in a High Male to Women Ratio.

    Thanks for the breaking it down make sense now :

    For the most part i really don't have an issue with the rich guys but the bars and clubs i go to there more guys than girls and hence gives them the upper hand frankly im intimidated ... never used to be before my oneitis i just need to figure out how to man up . trying to look for a way to deal with that any tips suggestions ?

    and my oneitis ... well to be honest i dont want her back for emotional reasons more of an ego thing want to get her and dump her ... im a child at heart and i can't accept a loss.

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    Default Re: How do I Pick up in a High Male to Women Ratio.

    For the most part i really don't have an issue with the rich guys but the bars and clubs i go to there more guys than girls and hence gives them the upper hand frankly im intimidated ... never used to be before my oneitis i just need to figure out how to man up . trying to look for a way to deal with that any tips suggestions ?
    sounds to me like you're using this "high male to female ratio" as an excuse not to approach. this is a bull sh!t excuse, because a large amount of those guys are standing on the sidelines afraid to go after the women they want. (don't be one of those guys)

    I can't make you approach the women you desire, you have to make the choice to put in the effort.

    when you're afraid to lose, you fail to take the risks necessary to win.

    memorize that phrase.

    you want to go after your target like a kamikaze pilot, without an ounce of fear.

    here's another way to think about it: imagine its your last day to live, as in you know that when you fall asleep you're not going to wake up, think about how much harder you would chase tail if this was your reality.

    now that's not saying that you have to be desperate and go home with a morbidly obese woman, but you should at least talk to some women while you're out.

    well to be honest i dont want her back for emotional reasons more of an ego thing want to get her and dump her ... im a child at heart and i can't accept a loss.
    you'll never fill your ego using women to boost it. if you're that concerned about "boosting your ego" lift weights or buy a corvette lol


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