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Thread: pickup and living with family, the struggle is real

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    Default pickup and living with family, the struggle is real

    I currently live with family due to the expensive living costs of my area, student loans etc. My question is simple really, how do guys in a similar position manage to handle game/bringing girls home if home is your parents. I am 25 so it seems like a pretty big dlv to live at home. Also I could probably afford a place, barely, and as a result would not get out as often. How do girls now days tend to look at a guy who still lives at home?

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    Default Re: pickup and living with family, the struggle is real

    I was actually staying with MY parents for a bit when I first moved back to Michigan.
    It wasn't a big deal at all.

    I just came right out & said, "Yeah, I'm staying with my parents for a bit because I just moved back to help them with some things around their house that they can't quite do on their own. Besides, it gives me a chance to save back some money before I get my own place again. Not a bad deal. "

    I met several girls while I was there & they didn't give it a second thought.

    It's only an issue if you let it become one.
    Don't lie or hide the fact of where you live or what your situation is. Yeah, it's OK to embellish it a bit & make it sound more like you're doing your parents a favor; but don't try to cover it up, because the girl(s) will find out eventually anyway.

    I actually invited my girlfriend over to meet my parents too... it went very well. And we got back late one night, so I just said she was crashing there instead of driving 2 hours at 11:30 at night to get back home.

    No problem.

    BUT.. it DOES depend on your relationship with your parents too.


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    Default Re: pickup and living with family, the struggle is real

    Not an issue at all. I've brought countless girls to my parents house and I'm older than you. All I did was bring them home. If they asked me if it was my parents house I would say "Yea my dad lives here". That's it. It's only a big deal if you make it one.

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    Default Re: pickup and living with family, the struggle is real

    I see what you guys are saying. My relationship with my parents is good and all but not good in the way that they would be cool if they knew I was taking random girls home after a night out lol. My living arrangement just kind of sucks right now. When I was in college, I had my own place and didnt have to worry at all. You guys both give great advice by the way.

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    Default Re: pickup and living with family, the struggle is real

    Quote Originally Posted by 2champ2 View Post
    I see what you guys are saying. My relationship with my parents is good and all but not good in the way that they would be cool if they knew I was taking random girls home after a night out lol. My living arrangement just kind of sucks right now. When I was in college, I had my own place and didnt have to worry at all. You guys both give great advice by the way.
    Logistics is one of the hardest things with game. You can have a fantastic night and if you don't have a place to go.. it can be frustrating. The only I can suggest is to find a decent hotel nearby with decent rates and plan ahead. I know money is tight man so that might not.be much of an option for you. But it is the best one.


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