So I started messaging this girl on Okcupid and she seemed pretty interested so I got her number and started texting for a bit. At first, our conversation flowed smoothly:
Me: It's xxxx, I'm looking for this goofy girl that likes to stalk charming Asian guys, where can I find her?
Her: Hi xxxx! If you're looking for a girl that stalks Asian guys, I know a bunch of weaboos in my Japanese art class, want me to hook you up?
Me: Wea-boos sounds hot. Yeah I'll make sure to bring my nerdy glasses and Hello Kitty lunchbox to woo tem all. Don't get too jealous.
Her: I'm jealous of anyone who has a hello kitty lunch box!
Me: Ah that reminds me of 1st day of grade school: carrying my Animaniacs lunch box and trade Pokemon cards at recess. Ya remember your first day?
Her: I'm amazed that you can remember yours, I can scarcely remember high school!
Me: I have selective memory ha. I bet you were a devious troublemaker...
Her: Haha I totally was! I tried to glue a kid to his seat one year...which didn't work because I used stick glue...
The next day, I add her on Facebook and ask her how her schedule looks this week.
Me: How's your schedule this week?
Her: Fairly free. How's yours?
Me: I got a big boy job but off earlier on Thurs/Fri. I've been craving some bubble tea, roll with me Thursday!
Her: Thursdays are a no go for me I'm at school all day.
Me: Ew gross. How's Friday for you?
Her: I should be free, will that work for you?
Me: I'm off @ 2 pm so yup. What area do you reside in?
Her: Cool beans. I live in NKU's campus, so downtown, basically.
Me: Ah okay I'm in BA. I know this place by campus, it's pretty delicious.
Her: Sounds good to me!
I should of just ended things here but I usually like to keep texting even a few days before the date. But here's the weird part.
(The next day)
Me: Oh and don't forget to bring your sense of humor and adventure. You'll need it
Her: What's in the bubble tea? How adventurous is this gonna be?
Me: Tapioca balls. squishy and chewy. I know the anticipation is killing you...
Her: I actually don't like the boba, soooooooo
Me: Ugh geez this will never work out between us.
Her: Oh, okay. So no date then. Good luck to you!
Me: Haha I was teasing ya. It's still on. Let's meet up @ 3:18.
Her: To be honest, your confrontational vibes are making me uncomfortable so I'm no longer interested. Good luck to you.
Then she removes me as a friend on FB. Well that escalated quickly! Did I really come off as confrontational? I think I may have flirted a bit too much. Has this happened to any of you guys? This has never happened to me before so I'm curious to know what I did wrong.