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    Default I Have Severe Approach anxiety

    I find myself having severe Approach Anxiety when approaching HB8's and up . I think about what I'm gunna use to open and always psych myself out and end up regretting it. What are the best ways to relieve this anxiety? I feel like its really holding me back.

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    Default Re: Approach anxiety

    Take the 8s and ups off a pedestal.

    Some of the best advice that I've internalized is to treat all women the same. Just because someone is more attractive doesn't mean they should be idolized or intimidating to you.

    Go against your fear and just approach the girls that make you paralyzed with fear. Once you do it, then you'll realize it is no big deal and all in your head.

    Don't presumptively put these girls on a pedestal and develop the Mindset that it's just a girl at the end of the day.

    You've lived your life to this point without them and success or failure life goes on.

    Just do it!

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    Default Re: Approach anxiety

    Would it be a bad idea to be honest with this one chick I didn't open and be like "I psyched myself it last time I saw you but I'd kick myself if I didn't try to get your number?"

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    Default Re: Approach anxiety

    Sounds a little too hesitant. Act like the next time you see her is the first time and go from there.

    Be confident and calm and chat her up. Don't plan things out too far in your head and just go with the flow of things.

    I'm curious, is this a girl you see in school?
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    Default Re: Approach anxiety

    No I don't see her at school. She graduated from the same high school but I'm not sure if she goes to my college or not. I just see her at the gym.

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    Default Re: Approach anxiety

    Quote Originally Posted by Ex3 View Post
    Would it be a bad idea to be honest with this one chick I didn't open and be like "I psyched myself it last time I saw you but I'd kick myself if I didn't try to get your number?"
    Hey, I think this is perfect. It doesn't sound too hesitant, because it is your emotion, it is what you naturally felt and it is what makes you AUTHENTIC, because you are saying the real thing.

    Believe me, women love when they can not only rely on what you think and feel to validate themselves, but also when they can trust a man that is true to himself.

    Because a man that is true to its feelings is a man that is not scared of anything.

    Go tell her what you felt, she is going to feel you...

    And don't worry, we all have feelings and emotions! So does she. She will be charmed, I promise
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