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    Default Shy girl advice

    Met a girl today on campus (HB8) who was very shy during our conversation. She showed ioi's like giggling and playing with her hair. As someone who makes sure to make good eye contact, I noticed she would only hold it for a second and then she would look away again. My question is how to get shy girls like this to open up more? Any advice would be appreciated!

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    Default Re: Shy girl advice

    It's really no different to any other girl. Think of her as being introverted rather than shy. Be confident, she will probably like it if you are somewhat extraverted so you take charge of the conversation but don't go overboard being too cocky. You might find she opens up later when asked the right questions and feels comfortable around you.

    Some shy girls are just plain boring conversationally though so keep that in mind.

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    Default Re: Shy girl advice

    It's like pulling teeth! Takes alot of comfort and most of all time. She has to understand for herself that she can be comfortable in your presence. That is not a quick process. And it also takes time to get her to take initiative (not that you need her to, just some guys like that). And that you won't put her out there and embarrass her. You have to be confident and at the same time not sooo confident that you scare her or shake up the protective introvert bubble she's created for herself.

    I like shy girls but if they really, truly are the shy type (it is subjective after all) they might throw your game off because you have to watch your confidence and not be too much of a show off. Could hamper your game.
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