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    Default When a girl says - I'll let you know

    Pretty simple question really.
    I've been trying to make plans to meet up with this girl in two days time, and we've talked about what we could do and where to go. She seems pretty keen on the idea (we were planning to go to a live music bar), but then she ends the (online chat) convo with..

    "I'll let you know tomorrow "


    It's now tomorrow, 6pm, and she hasn't contacted me.

    I'm fully aware that I might be over-thinking this, but I just thought that if she wants to go, surely she'd just check her diary and confirm she's free!

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    Some girls are flaky....
    but most of the time it's because, the guy failed to build enough attraction.

    If a girl is attracted, she's gonna do whatever it takes to meet up & be with you. She'll be looking forward to it... not looking for excuses to cancel.


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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Some girls are flaky....
    but most of the time it's because, the guy failed to build enough attraction.

    If a girl is attracted, she's gonna do whatever it takes to meet up & be with you. She'll be looking forward to it... not looking for excused to cancel.
    That's what makes attraction such a bitch though. I've noticed that attraction levels can change from day to day. Some days she might be flirty and full of zest and ready to roll out. Other days they can be cold as ice and make you question where you went wrong at.

    The red pill guys claim it's biologically related to ovulation and makes some sense, but in my experience attraction either grows over time naturally with exposure, or it builds instantly and rapidly fades with exposure. Either way it is up to us to take advantage of any attraction windows, limited as they may be and sense intuitively when a woman is most receptive.

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    In my experience, girls just forget. They aren't hardwired to logic and planning like us. They have these emotional fluctuations going on whole day, everyday, which makes them forget a lot of small stuff. It doesn't always mean she's a cold bitch.

    One more thing, making promises is power. Because, you give certainty that no matter what happens in the future, you'll do that specific thing and it's a pretty powerful statement. Some girls don't back their word up because they just can't.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    Quote Originally Posted by AmbientKid View Post
    Pretty simple question really.
    I've been trying to make plans to meet up with this girl in two days time, and we've talked about what we could do and where to go. She seems pretty keen on the idea (we were planning to go to a live music bar), but then she ends the (online chat) convo with..

    "I'll let you know tomorrow "


    It's now tomorrow, 6pm, and she hasn't contacted me.

    I'm fully aware that I might be over-thinking this, but I just thought that if she wants to go, surely she'd just check her diary and confirm she's free!
    That's a sweet way of saying "no".

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    Total sh!t test. Just say hey "how about I let you know instead?" Or you can say "ok fine but you just lost ten points with me. I'm going to go have to talk to some other girl now."

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    I don't think it's so much a shit test, as it is resistance & hesitancy to commit to the meetup.

    This usually happens because the girl is still unsure about the guy; and usually happens when the guy pushes too soon for "the date"... OR... because he still needs to build more attraction.


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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    I would send her a silly text teasing her about forgetting if her schedule's free or not. Say something like: Did a group of wolves come and eat up your planner? It's okay I won't judge.

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    GoBucks90 - Thanks for that tip...I sent the message saying something like "did you swap your short term memory with a goldfish? " and it worked quite well.
    She did two things. She laughed and made a joke back, then said she was free all day...however I couldn't persuade her to meet up. She made a pretty transparent excuse saying "I can't be out late I've got work in the morning" (we were only going to be out till 11pm).

    I'm pretty sure I just haven't dhv'd enough and made her want to spend time with me.

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    Default Re: When a girl says "I'll let you know"

    Be more spontaneous man.

    When you go to hang out with one of your buddies... You don't make plans 2 days in advance. Do the same thing with girls.


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