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Thread: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

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    Default How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    So my friend and coworker had a disaster of an experience with these girls today. We go to school and work at a restaurant where you prepare food in front of the customer and talk to them.

    So it's often hard to really pick up a girl in the few minutes we have with them unless they are trying to pick us up too.

    Well today there was a 7 and an 8.5 and they were giving major IOIs including telling stories to sound cool. The 7 was acting ditsy/insecure but both were fun and engaging us in conversation/joking around. I have a girlfriend so I just try to look out for my friend in these situations, but I am often at a loss for what to do in the short time we have with these girls. As it turned out we blew it and as the food was served we chatted for about another minute and then they walked off.

    I told my buddy that that this girl was very much into him and he should have invited her to do something with him. He didn't pick up on their trying to show off as trying to impress us so he thought they were just stuck in their own conversation (though we were certainly talking back and forth). Well the one girl came back for "more food" (it's not a buffet so when this happens it often means they want to talk more and get asked out). Well then some guys came over and somehow knew the girls and started talking to them about boring things. I didn't know what to do to get rid of the guys so we ended up just waiting it out. Then the girl said she didn't want food anymore and walked away. Well my friend decided to hunt her down in the mall and when he found her he played it off like he didn't see her and she and her friend came over to him and started bullshitting. Well he asked them what they were doing tonight and they said x. So then they were walking in different directions (i know there are things you can do so this doesn't happen i don't remember what) and so they just parted ways.

    I told him he should have tried for a number and that he wasn't officially rejected until the girl didn't give him her number at which point he needs to just come back to work lol.

    Anyway what are you guys' thoughts particularly about getting rid of those guys... Any other thoughts would be great as we have to deal with these quick opportunities when at work.

    *EDIT: it seems to me that whatever could have been done about those guys would have involved one or both of us staying with the group when the guys came over with the implied status of being already friends with the girl and not just weird restaurant workers who are trying to get into the conversation. Maybe just getting introduced to the guys would have broke the ice and then we could have just been more interesting and fun than them and DHVed a bit. Or we could have said that we had work to do and we'll be in the back which is what we did without actually saying anything. It just seems to me the way we responded was a dlv.

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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    Engage them. Open them just like the random couple girls you hear talking. Find an interjection and roll with it. Build them up and make them feel awesome. Generally 30-60 seconds should be good, maybe a tad more if the girl will stick around for it, then just turn to her and bring the fact back up that you were having a conversation however you want to. If she starts talking to you again. Your upper body can be facing her but you should still have your lower body facing away (it should be facing towards him, as you were just heavily engaging him). If she re-initiates, which she will if she is into you, turn the rest of your body toward her.

    You will have to tweak the timing and body language, its too difficult to explain but you can totally AMOG quite a few guys like this. Generally he will sit there and listen or bid his goodbyes and leave.
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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    Sounds good. My friend always tries to look to me for tips with girls though he really has better social skills than me in a lot of ways except spotting IOIs. I hate giving him advice when I'm not really a PUA by any means. Though if I was single again I would probably try to put a little more thought into how I approach women. I am an overthinker so PUA is a perfect fit for that.

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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    Engage them. Open them just like the random couple girls you hear talking. Find an interjection and roll with it. Build them up and make them feel awesome. Generally 30-60 seconds should be good, maybe a tad more if the girl will stick around for it, then just turn to her and bring the fact back up that you were having a conversation however you want to. If she starts talking to you again. Your upper body can be facing her but you should still have your lower body facing away (it should be facing towards him, as you were just heavily engaging him). If she re-initiates, which she will if she is into you, turn the rest of your body toward her.

    You will have to tweak the timing and body language, its too difficult to explain but you can totally AMOG quite a few guys like this. Generally he will sit there and listen or bid his goodbyes and leave.
    My advice too. If you want to win a girl over win over her friends, including guyfriends.

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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    cock blocks can be very annoying and very confusing and interaction with the woman from his buyer self and you approach her you may want to ask who are you here with for the logistical reasons

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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    It's probably easiest to just interrupt them, get the number then send them off to resume their convo. You asserted dominance over the guy while being courteous, and are not afraid to lose the girl, this is both more alpha and less risky than to AMOG him.

    If you have more time, you should engage them both in a conversation, girls will lower their guard a lot in the presence of a guy friend. You also have a free target to show off your dominance over other guys, again do it gently, making the guy feel awesome while you do your thing.

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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    In the future its a simple as this. SEIEZE THE MOMENT! Say '' you 2 MAKE SURE you leave me your numbers.'' Your FUN so we can hang out later.'' You can decide who you want later. I've done it before and it works. In fact its easier than going about it any other way. Plus its a pretty bad ass way of getting a number. You don't have to get rid of the other guy. The reason you look so dominate and good is because he's there and speechless.
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    Default Re: How to politely get rid of other guys when in a pinch for time

    I've said it before and I'll say it again... don't shit where you eat.


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