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    Default FUCK all seem lost

    dating for 4 weeks.. all seemed good.... until last night textingg..

    HELP


    12/10/2014 22:00:10: me: Hey babe, just got back from longgg day.

    12/10/2014 22:00:27: me: Def thought i saw ur twin 😄

    12/10/2014 22:00:55: her: Was she fit?

    12/10/2014 22:00:56: her: Lol

    12/10/2014 22:01:02: me: She was alright

    12/10/2014 22:01:10: me: Booty was in check😉

    12/10/2014 22:01:38: her: Gee thanks (roll eyes)

    12/10/2014 22:03:46: me: Jokies, she had a cute face

    12/10/2014 22:04:02: me: With blonde fifi eyes.

    12/10/2014 22:04:52:her: Cool

    12/10/2014 22:10:03: me: U were right about squirrels tofay

    12/10/2014 22:10:37: me: They are vicious

    12/10/2014 22:18:05: me: <image omitted>

    12/10/2014 22:18:31: me: Which one do u think was mine😄

    12/10/2014 22:41:59: me: babe quick question abt ur landlord situaion. Quick chat?

    12/10/2014 22:58:18: her: I'm busy atm- what's the q?

    12/10/2014 23:14:25: me: Nw, it was just abt bills.

    12/10/2014 23:14:51: me: Wht bills can u exclude marsh frm paying since u owe the flat

    12/10/2014 23:15:11: her: I don't understand?

    12/10/2014 23:15:19: me: We both have to pay all bills

    12/10/2014 23:15:26: me: No like

    12/10/2014 23:15:40: me: Does she pay maintenace and agency fees

    12/10/2014 23:16:23: her: Well obviously not but she (should) pay part of the service grand

    12/10/2014 23:16:33: her: Which is london average 2.5-3.5k a year

    12/10/2014 23:16:41: her: *service charge

    12/10/2014 23:17:37: me: Ahhh ok. But out of goodwill

    12/10/2014 23:17:44:me: U dont make her pay?

    12/10/2014 23:17:52: her: Service charge

    12/10/2014 23:17:57: her: I don't

    12/10/2014 23:18:07: her: But then again she pays 40 quid a week

    12/10/2014 23:18:13: her: It's not like ur standard arrangement

    12/10/2014 23:19:23: me: Yh yh of course, your besties

    12/10/2014 23:20:03: me: My mate askin me to move in and do the same.. He owes the flat

    12/10/2014 23:20:12: me: *owns

    12/10/2014 23:20:25: her: So no service charge?

    12/10/2014 23:20:33: me: Yup!

    12/10/2014 23:20:39: me: Wood green tho...

    12/10/2014 23:21:11: me: 750 in rent ...

    12/10/2014 23:21:36: her: Hmmm

    12/10/2014 23:21:56: her: Seems like a lot for the area but if ur not paying service charge

    12/10/2014 23:21:58: her: Then that would make up for it

    12/10/2014 23:22:26: me: Thats what i thought, went to view the flat today

    12/10/2014 23:22:48: her: It'll have cross rail as well although idk when thtll be done

    12/10/2014 23:23:10: her: What's it like?

    12/10/2014 23:24:59: me: Hopefully soon..Reallllyyy nicee, the room and living was on point

    12/10/2014 23:25:05: me: Brand new

    12/10/2014 23:25:43: me: Think he bought it for 400- 500... Like 2 yrs ago

    12/10/2014 23:25:56: her: Yeh makes sense

    12/10/2014 23:26:25: me: House wise perfect..

    12/10/2014 23:26:32: me: Its he area really..

    12/10/2014 23:26:37: me: *the

    12/10/2014 23:30:02: me: im goin to view it again on tuesday night

    12/10/2014 23:30:48: me: Make sure.. hes hostin me a dinner partylol

    12/10/2014 23:31:51: her: Why?

    12/10/2014 23:31:55: her: What's he like more importantly

    12/10/2014 23:37:21: me: hes fine, mate from uni

    12/10/2014 23:38:01: me: Lived with him in 2nd yr

    12/10/2014 23:38:43: me: Think he sounds too keen?

    12/10/2014 23:38:54: her: Lol idk

    12/10/2014 23:39:20: me: Tbf he offered to even cut gas bill for me...

    12/10/2014 23:40:12: me: Anwyays u all preped for college?

    12/10/2014 23:40:39: her: New builds don't have has

    12/10/2014 23:40:41: her: *gas

    12/10/2014 23:40:54: her: I don't have a gas bill

    12/10/2014 23:45:26: me: Lol of course electric only

    12/10/2014 23:45:45: me: Hmm will seee

    12/10/2014 23:51:05: me: Weathers lookin breezy

    12/10/2014 23:51:21: me: U bustin out rick ross 2moro

    12/10/2014 23:52:07: her: ?

    12/10/2014 23:52:41: me: The big ole furry coat

    12/10/2014 23:52:57: me: Grey one

    12/10/2014 23:53:10: her: Ah ye idk

    12/10/2014 23:53:13: her: Think it's gna rain

    12/10/2014 23:53:16: her: So probs not

    12/10/2014 23:54:20: me: Weatherman never lies

    13/10/2014 00:01:02: me: Did u go tame on shoppin today missy

    13/10/2014 00:02:32: her: Yep

    13/10/2014 00:10:24: me: Ha let rona card rest.

    13/10/2014 00:11:12: me: U go for the blazerss or cardis

    13/10/2014 00:11:31: her: Either or

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    Default Re: FUCK all seem lost

    Well, it was a boring conversation. Check out T-Mal's text game in here. Improve your text game and keep on flirting and teasing. You need to be gaming her even if you are dating. The convo just went downhill from the start into subjects that didn't illicit emotions.

    Sometimes I'd bait a subject out of a girl. I was texting a blonde from work and said she reminded me of a Baywatch cast member. This was after the convo was about to die out and she was getting boring. So the next half hour involved me throwing ideas at her on wearing a red one piece swimming suit and have her run down the shopfloor with boobs bouncing and all in slow motion and with me in my red trunks.

    Fun, Tease, Flirt at all times.

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    Default Re: fark all seem lost

    Quote Originally Posted by Grey2fox View Post
    Well, it was a boring conversation. Check out T-Mal's text game in here. Improve your text game and keep on flirting and teasing. You need to be gaming her even if you are dating. The convo just went downhill from the start into subjects that didn't illicit emotions.

    Sometimes I'd bait a subject out of a girl. I was texting a blonde from work and said she reminded me of a Baywatch cast member. This was after the convo was about to die out and she was getting boring. So the next half hour involved me throwing ideas at her on wearing a red one piece swimming suit and have her run down the shopfloor with boobs bouncing and all in slow motion and with me in my red trunks.

    Fun, Tease, Flirt at all times.
    Thanks! I know I need to... I the t mal guide.. will read read.. but the thing i find is when im in this situation my AFC comes out of me... so bad.

    its the next dayy... would u wait and freeze her out for a bit?

    or come up with something funny and flirty to say today and text...?

    Not sure how long to wait.. my natural reaction is to freeze.. i think i need a real good bait..

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    Default Re: FUCK all seem lost

    You never freeze a girl out when YOU are the one who screwed up.
    In this case, SHE didn't do anything deserving of a Freeze Out.

    You just lost your frame & went AFC & boring.

    Read my texting do's & don'ts thread & my magic texts thread for some ideas on how to possibly recover.




    Also- Don't multi-post the same thing in several threads.
    You risk getting banned by doing that.

    I know you're freaked out & looking for feedback ASAP, but that's one of the big No-No's here.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: fark all seem lost

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You never freeze a girl out when YOU are the one who screwed up.
    In this case, SHE didn't do anything deserving of a Freeze Out.

    You just lost your frame & went AFC & boring.

    Read my texting do's & don'ts thread & my magic texts thread for some ideas on how to possibly recover.




    Also- Don't multi-post the same thing in several threads.
    You risk getting banned by doing that.

    I know you're freaked out & looking for feedback ASAP, but that's one of the big No-No's here.
    Thanks T Mal.. I think i just panicked and literally went crazy.. i need to chill.

    I just hate being in this situation, when i have to recover because it leads to desperate texting and none natural gaming...

    So no to the freeze out.. we text and talk everyday but i cant imagine her intimating at this point...

    I need killer line or idea to spice things upp.. shes at work atm.. would you suggest waiting till the evening?

    or 1 day..

    Feel like im treadin on last hopes here...

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    Default Re: FUCK all seem lost

    First advice: don't keep texting her 3 messages when she doesn't answer the last one.
    Second advice: you don't have to talk to her everyday, that makes the relationship dull because you never give her time to really think about you.
    third advice: try to tease her and actually flirt with her, from this text you make it seem like you're the girl and she's the man, lead don't submit and give her all the power.
    fourth advice:Have fun!!
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: fark all seem lost

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    First advice: don't keep texting her 3 messages when she doesn't answer the last one.
    Second advice: you don't have to talk to her everyday, that makes the relationship dull because you never give her time to really think about you.
    third advice: try to tease her and actually flirt with her, from this text you make it seem like you're the girl and she's the man, lead don't submit and give her all the power.
    fourth advice:Have fun!!
    Thanks for the response.. I know all this stuff and got caught up deep ...

    Atm i'm in recovery mode and not sure where to turn...

    ok i promise from now on to ONLY TEXT FUN and thats it...


    My real decision right now is its the next day... should i leave it a day or 2 then reitiate or just a day?

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    Default Re: FUCK all seem lost

    Just realized this was the same thread posted with a different name...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: fark all seem lost

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Just realized this was the same thread posted with a different name...
    Sorry, im going to stop postin everywhere.. i just panic..

    I have def been acting like a crazy girl on her period... lol

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    Default Re: FUCK all seem lost

    Man, your "problem" got in touch with us all faster than the ebola pandemic. Congratulations for that.

    However, that makes me sad. I'm sad every time I see a guy in your situation, because we're supposed to be calm and relaxed, not overly emotional like a 12 year-old girl, so I've got only one advice for you mate...
    ... which is to stop giving a fuck. Your balls and your dick are her property. Go out there, talk with other girls (which I doubt you do), jerk off, whatever, but do something else, because you're too dependent on her and on the outcome. And that my friend, is a recipe for disaster, because the more you care, the shittier will be your future position beside her.


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