Re: should I call her when she proposed a meeting day
I second what direct is saying. Dont let rules get in the way of what you want. If theybare your rules they should be there only to protect you because of your principal. Waiting to intiate shouldnt be anyone's rule unless its because of convience. By that i mean you cant text or call because you have no cell service isnt very convient.. See--thats a nice rule. It makes sense. If she said she's dealing with a death / funeral then thats kind of convient to wait some what because she might not be emotionally ready--but it still wont hurt to contact because she's likely to respond to something that might change her mood positively.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.