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    I met a woman one month ago who was sitting next to me on a flight. We talked very well for one hour in the plane and exchanged numbers after the landing.



    A couple of days after I returned home I called her, but then it wasn't possible for her to meet and she proposed to meet the upcoming weekend (18 or 19 Oct). We agreed to contact each other again shortly before that weekend.


    Now, I'm a bit puzzled: should I call her again or wait for her call?
    From one point the guy should take the initiative, but on the other hand she proposed the delay till this weekend.


    Although the initial meeting went well and also she seemed joyed to meet again when I called her I'm thinking now that this might be a stupid test to see how and when I react.

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    Default Re: should I call her when she proposed a meeting day

    Call her. You gain nothing from waiting. The two most beautiful women I've ever been with I ALWAYS had to initiate. It's fine to initiate. Some women have stupid rules where they refuse to initiate (trust me, I have girlfriends who have these rules). It's stupid but it happens.

    If you don't initiate you run the chance of not talking to her again. Call her and set something up already!

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    Default Re: should I call her when she proposed a meeting day

    I second what direct is saying. Dont let rules get in the way of what you want. If theybare your rules they should be there only to protect you because of your principal. Waiting to intiate shouldnt be anyone's rule unless its because of convience. By that i mean you cant text or call because you have no cell service isnt very convient.. See--thats a nice rule. It makes sense. If she said she's dealing with a death / funeral then thats kind of convient to wait some what because she might not be emotionally ready--but it still wont hurt to contact because she's likely to respond to something that might change her mood positively.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: should I call her when she proposed a meeting day

    Last thing you want to do is go to where she says you should meet the puts her in a leadership role you want to go where you say you want to meet and not her you want her to be in your world

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    Default Re: should I call her when she proposed a meeting day

    So, I called on Thursday evening. No Answer. Called 40 minutes later. Again no answer, but now I left a message. Called again on Friday evening. Same result: no answer + left a second message.

    So, before I was puzzled about calling her, but now I am even more because:
    - during the first meeting she was very enthusiastic and she was almost asking to #-close her (I didn't realize it well at that moment, duh!)
    - on the first call she was certainly willing to meet, but in the weekend because of job reasons (she's traveling a lot for her job).

    The only thing which I can think of is that she's maybe out of the country because of her job.
    or it could be that she turned into a flake.

    Just after the initial meeting I searched on Facebook and found her based on first name and city. I looked briefly on her public profile. I searched again thinking like "maybe there is now a picture with some other guy", then I will forget about it, but the profile exists no longer!

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    Default Re: should I call her when she proposed a meeting day

    Move on buddy. Plenty of fish sll aroud you. Start small work big
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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