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    Default Need help with a Mystery Girl who added me on FB

    Ok, the title of this thread doesn't do the situation justice. Might seem long winded but any advice on how to reignite things or my game in general would be much appreciated.

    I have no idea who this girl is but here's the conversation...


    Conversation started 24 September

    HB
    Random question; What's it like living in Australia? X
    ahahahah no !
    this was supposed to go to my friend living in Australia, apologies
    We arent even friends on here so i have no idea how this is even possible?!
    25 September

    Me
    Haha well? What did they say it was like?

    HB
    He loves living there! Haha, sorry about that

    Me
    No worries

    HB
    Still find it weird that it let me message you on here, even though we aren't friends
    Weird

    Me
    Yeah that is pretty odd aha. Do we have any mutual friends or anything? If I wasn't on my phone id have fb stalked the fark out of you I'm not gonna lie

    HB
    I have no idea! I'm guessing so?? Well I'm glad you're not on your phone! Weirdo! X
    Not being serious by the way

    Me
    I gathered haha

    HB
    Don't know whether you're a weirdo or not

    Me
    You melt

    HB
    Haha good haha
    melt?!
    Original

    Me
    You're weird haha I quite like it

    HB
    Rather be weird than boring 😎
    "Melt"

    Me
    Top insult that

    HB
    Hahaha I love it

    HB
    Don't stalk me

    Me
    too late hahaha

    HB
    Hahahaha
    Helmet

    Me
    Tell me how to get to sleep before midnight then I seem to find it impossible

    HB
    Sleep is for the dead
    MASSIVE PUSSY

    Me
    I even listened to an audio book by Ellen Degeneres last night 🙈
    Wow
    You must be some party animal

    HB
    Audio books are pretty cool though
    Listen to relaxing music
    Always does the trick

    Me
    I just end up singing along though because I'm such a hipster

    HB
    Yeah same
    HipstA

    HB
    Why are you thinking about bed at this time
    26 September

    Me
    Because I'm a big shot and have to be up early for work

    HB
    Haha hey I work too
    28 September

    Me
    What you doing tonight?

    HB
    I'm going for a drive with Harriet 😬 you??
    That was random 🙈

    Me
    some boy
    haha was gons say lets go for a drive but youre already doing that aha

    HB
    Haha we don't even know each other 🙊🙊 well we do a little but it would be weird going on a drive !! X

    Me
    Well I needed to kill some time before I pick my bro up from the sea terminal
    Such a let down! I've had to settle for some proper bang average company now haha

    HB
    Haha oh I see !!! Using me to pass time ey
    29 September

    Me
    You should feel privileged you were my first choice
    29 September

    HB
    Haha SOOOO privileged 😇

    Haven't spoken to her in a month but how do i restart it and get things moving?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Need help with a Mystery Girl who added me on FB

    Seriously... after 3 months you should walk away. If you really want to try to get her to talk again you should act the same you would with someone you have never talked to before. So just open with some random anything. Maybe send her a message you attended for someone else and be all suprised she got the message.

    But first, read more advise about text game. Re read your conversation again and realise you did not have or take the lead at any point. And your FBStalking comment was really horrible.

    Don't worry, you get there if you keep on trying but it will probably an other fish in the sea!

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    Default Re: Need help with a Mystery Girl who added me on FB

    You cant really move forward if you havent met. You can work on your text / FB Game by talking to her but if you never meet up you'll never close
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Need help with a Mystery Girl who added me on FB

    You can totally re-initiate the convo.
    However... this time, avoid the Fluff-talk!

    But a great way to reconnect would be to just drop a line & say something like:
    Hey spunky pants, I've soooooooo missed your weird, random accidental messages. Don't tell me you finally learned how to properly use the FB messaging function? So, what other mischief have you gotten yourself into the past few weeks? I'd be willing to bet that your middle name should be "embarrassment" by now.

    It's playful, flirty, confident & will totally stand out from every other message she may get.

    It expresses possible interest from you, in a non-desperate way.
    (Just enough to pique her curiosity a bit.)

    At this point your only goal is to get her to respond again.
    THEN, you can ramp up the flirting & KEEP HER interested in YOU.



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