So I typically like openers where the girl has actually moved her body next to me. Whereas I may be leaning against the bar and she is ordering a drink and I just lean over to talk to her. Or even a tap on the shoulder if she is standing in my vicinity and then leaning back.
All because I think it doesn't give away your initial "power" and doesn't seem needy. And feel that women respond better to that. And they may work harder to prove themselves to you.
So I hate those times when I want to open with a girl and have to walk across the room to talk to her. Its not the anxiety approach, it just sets the wrong initial precedent of you are coming to HER. Implying that she is the prize. Versus you being the prize and you felt like having a conversation with her.
Any crafty ways to do this so it doesn't seem like you came after her initially?
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