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    Default Ways to Open without having to WALK to her

    So I typically like openers where the girl has actually moved her body next to me. Whereas I may be leaning against the bar and she is ordering a drink and I just lean over to talk to her. Or even a tap on the shoulder if she is standing in my vicinity and then leaning back.

    All because I think it doesn't give away your initial "power" and doesn't seem needy. And feel that women respond better to that. And they may work harder to prove themselves to you.

    So I hate those times when I want to open with a girl and have to walk across the room to talk to her. Its not the anxiety approach, it just sets the wrong initial precedent of you are coming to HER. Implying that she is the prize. Versus you being the prize and you felt like having a conversation with her.

    Any crafty ways to do this so it doesn't seem like you came after her initially?


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    Default Re: Ways to Open without having to WALK to her

    Walking up & APPROACHING expresses confidence. That doesn't necessarily make her the prize... it shows that you're curious about her & potentially.

    It also can be used to frame it as, "she now needs to prove that she's interesting enough for you to stick around & hang with her."


    Guys who wait for the girls to come make the move are oftentimes seen as timid & unsure.

    Walking up & approaching a girl is just being social. So, walk up & approach EVERYONE, not just the girl you're interested in.


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    Default Re: Ways to Open without having to WALK to her

    Any crafty ways to do this so it doesn't seem like you came after her initially?

    Well what would you imagine? There is none, except like chilling out in a place where women come to (the bar area). You should respect your own view about your behavior above the girls view, you see something interesting you go and talk to her, not wasting time.

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    Default Re: Ways to Open without having to WALK to her

    I don't think that you approaching her vs her approaching you is going to be the difference in whether you get laid. And thats all you should care about. I feel like you're getting caught up in some philosophical objection thats not very relevant to achieving your goal.


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