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    Default Hey, kiss closed when drunk in club and dont know how to follow up

    Hey guys,
    So it was my friends birthday a couple of days ago. We went out for dinner and then to a club. I knew everyone there except one cute girl. At the dinner I didn't talk to her at all but I made conversation with the others. We all got quite drunk as it was a free bar! When we got to the club I talked to her a little bit but not much. But then later on in the night I got chatting to her about different things and we talked about how we're not really relationship people. Then when the group found us her friend said that we should hook up so she just turned to me and said 'yea why not' and we started kissing. We hooked up for the rest of the night and she kept telling me i was a great kisser and had soft lips! We were very flirty and got along great. She was going to come back to an after party, but that ended up falling apart, so she just went home. When it was time to go we flagged down a taxi and she just ran over and hopped in without a kiss goodbye. She was in a rush to get to the taxi, but I dunno.. anyway I was wondering if I could have anything with this girl or was it really just drunken love!? Thanks

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    Default Re: Hey, kiss closed when drunk in club and dont know how to follow up

    Damn that's sucks. It is very possible that was something called "state attraction" if I remember correctly. Basically it means she's into you in that moment in time, but once she sobers up and gets back to her daily life she would've forgot, or even regret, what happened the night before. That's why there are things like qualifying and comfort building to solidify the attraction you have built up so when she does leave she still wants more from you.

    Now this doesn't mean you shouldn't go after her at all. I'm just saying that the odds are kind of against you. Best to approach her in a non-sexual way and don't bring up that night. Just to be on the safe side.

    Focus on getting to know her as a person and praise the good traits she has as a woman. No, not her physical assets. Her character. Doesn't matter if you just want to bed her you still have to make the interaction feel unique and that she is special to you.
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