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Thread: Help! Overthinking the Open in Class.

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    Default Help! Overthinking the Open in Class.

    Sup playas? Been a while since I've posted so lets get right into it.


    I have a class MWF with a girl whom I sit next to. I have briefly talked to her two or three times but I haven't initiated conversation in the last two plus weeks.

    I want to re initiate conversation with her but I am not sure how to go about it seeing as though we sit by each other and I usually say nothing.

    Should I just :

    1). Ask her a question/ Make a comment about the class? (I don't really want to do this, I hate class talk but I know it's useful).

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    2). Just start talking to her as if I have been the whole semester?

    I'm disappointed with the fact that I didn't initiate more earlier on so I'm trying to make up for lost time. Not sure if I even want to pick her up. I just don't want to waste a prime time opportunity next to an attractive girl. Any advice would be appreciated.
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    Default Re: Help! Overthinking the Open in Class.

    Hey man,
    Your definitely over-thinking this. My recommendation is to chat her up in a way that conveys that you've been talking to her all semester, totally casual. Law of state transference--what YOU feel SHE will feel. So if you make the approach/open or whatever out to be a big deal or random/forward, she'll take it that way. If you open relaxed without any doubt, she'll fall into the frame that "this is ok/normal".

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    Default Re: Help! Overthinking the Open in Class.

    You really should not tie up this much emotion into one approach though. Have an "abundant" Mindset knowing that the result of you hitting her up is irrelevant. Your just controlling what you can control, and there billions of girls out there to approach, you're never going to run out of them. Long as you man up and approach/do your thing, be of the mind that her reaction is out of your control and not your problem. No pressure.

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    Default Re: Help! Overthinking the Open in Class.

    Thanks for the feedback!


    I literally just walked in class today and made conversation and it was no big deal.

    My problem can be that I'll have a pleasant encounter with someone and next time I see them I won't say anything.

    I'll be sure to make this an emphasis of mine to make sure I continue to engage people I meet.
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