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    Default Direct approaching women who are at work?

    I guess this would be considered Hired Gun game. I was out with family at a very nice/fancy restaurant the other night and the hostess gorgeous. I was out tonight picking up some takeout at a different restaurant and again, an absolutely gorgeous hostess. Both situations I wanted to approach but I really didnt know how to open. They were both pretty busy and even when they had a minute or two of alone time, that was typically all. So I figured any approach would need to be quick and to the point so as to not interrupt her job too much. Anyone have any tips on this? Is it bad form to just come in with a direct approach of something along the lines of, hey you look incredible, strike up a quick convo and just go right for the number? I was also thinking that as a hostess, they probably get stuff like that alot also. I ask more for an as a future reference, so next time I am at either place, or another similar situation, I have an idea of how I can proceed. Any feedback is great.

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    Default Re: Direct approaching women who are at work?

    It's never good to go direct at work and places where you regularly run into the same woman day to day like a gym or work place etc.

    Here, flirting with them is the best way to get in. Use situational openers and then flirt, flirt and flirt.Direct usually works best when you aren't expecting to see a girl again after that day/night.

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    Default Re: Direct approaching women who are at work?

    No no I don't work with them, I'm wondering if direct approach on an HB who is at her job, like a waitress/cashier/hostess/bar tender etc is a good idea. If they are on the job, they may not have time to stand there and have a long convo so is a direct to the point and quick Number Close a good approach?

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    Default Re: Direct approaching women who are at work?

    You shouldn't try to have a long convo when you just meet a girl, whether she's working or not.

    Just start flirting.

    Tease/banter with her. That's all that's necessary to spark interest.


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