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    Default Mixed signals: Need advice

    Hello my fellow PUA

    I need some advice on a situation that im having at this moment. I have this Friend who me and her have been friends since junior year of high school. She has always been really close with me. Not like a brother kind of close, my family loved her. we share similar living style. Back to my point. we had gotten into a disagreement which put our friendship on a hold for a couple of years. I was with a buddy at a bar and happen to run into her that night. she instantly gave me a hug and was wanting to rekindle our friendship, well after a couple of drinks she started telling me a more about how bad she missed me. a couple months go by and we have been hanging out. Everything is great. but i keep getting signs of a jealous gf/ wanting to spend a lot of time together/ dressing up the same on Halloween . Even spending late night watching movies together. Now i know "Best friends" dont have that romantic vibe to it. so i decided to act on it and tell her i want to slowly start turning it into something serious. Was that a good move and am i crazy for thinking those are signs?

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    Default Re: Mixed signals: Need advice

    95% of the time that is a dumb move. 5% of the time it's a joke.

    Repeat after me: I will never, ever, ever, ever tell a girl I like her.

    Once she stated that she wanted to see a movie with you all night long, you should have told her, jokingly: "so... this is you telling me that you want to cuddle with me? 'Cause if it is...my standards are very high and I don't think you can match them... "

    Telling a girl you like her is a pussy move. Why? Because there are way better ways of doing it. How?
    a) flirt with her. Tease her. Touch her. Escalate.
    b) go in for the kiss. And if she rejects, don't give a fuck about it. Just keep on with the flirting.

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    Default Re: Mixed signals: Need advice

    You might be friend zone yourself with that statement. Bro if this girl is with you all the time she likes you. That being said you should be getting a lot of Kino and kissing even sex. For now on your goal is to be friends with benefits. Let her tell you she wants to be in a relationship then decide if u want to progress or not. But since you made that statement already don't take it back just don't mention it again. Start with he Kino and escalation. And become her potential lover. Don't friend zone your self.
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    Default Re: Mixed signals: Need advice

    What you really need to do is just be a man and be HONEST with both yourself, and her. You need to stop over complicating things. If you want to do something with her, then just tell her that you are keen to do something and TELL her to join you. Do not ask. If you feel that you want to be with her, TELL HER.

    Not only is being honest attractive in itself, it shows that you have confidence.

    Boys ask for permission. MEN just make things happen.

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