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Thread: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse" ?

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    Default They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse" ?

    I have a local shop, in a big mall, selling cosmetics&clothes. I made an raffle where girls only have to buy worth of 50$ and they complete an paper and they can win some products.

    I really enjoy talking with my clients from time to time.. cute girls... most are 16-22 I am about 28.

    The only problems occurs when I take out their number/memorize it and call them next day. They behave like having an "buyer remorse" , even if they told they are single and bla bla bla.


    How should I avoid this? How can I play will having their numbers already in my phone? or face to face after EASY getting their number.

    I mean i really think i have more qualities by being the owner of a shop then a drunk guy, or a club guy. NO?

    They seems pretty cool that day, just that 99% of them next day ... lol.

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    From what I read it seems they are using you because you own the shop.if they play games then just forget it and move on! Point blank.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    No. they are not using me at all. Just rejecting me next day ) on the phone )

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    Are you being direct or in direct? Cuz if you come too forward maybe thats the issue.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    Being indirect can't really help a lot.. as I am the owner... so we can't talk to much shit... they are just clothes. I am also not into fashion to much.

    I tried both/indirect when i call next day they are "uhh i gave this number just in the hope i will win" after i say my talk , they seems allright... some of them even are giving me their facebook , or a few more text messgae

    a few days after this, i get messeangeslike "dont' contact me again"

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    Quote Originally Posted by ismartguy View Post
    Being indirect can't really help a lot.. as I am the owner... so we can't talk to much shit... they are just clothes. I am also not into fashion to much.

    I tried both/indirect when i call next day they are "uhh i gave this number just in the hope i will win" after i say my talk , they seems allright... some of them even are giving me their facebook , or a few more text messgae

    a few days after this, i get messeangeslike "dont' contact me again"
    That's your problem. You're duping them into giving you their number by telling them they might win something. This is a HUGE no-no. You're not being congruent. You're tricking them into giving you their number for a raffle then you're calling them to go on a date. This will trigger any woman's alarm system.

    Don't do that. If you want their number get it from them without "tricking" them. This will reduce flakes by A LOT.

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    Yeah , but why to work if they just came to everyday and give their numbers. I think 5000 ladies left their number so far.


    So what game should I do ? Drop the ladies who came and buy things from my store and go for the clubs ones? lol ...

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    Go anywhere but stop what you are doing! It will never work! Also, it's not fair on the women. Don't expect this to work, it won't. They give you their number because they think they will win something! They are not giving you their number because they are interested in you. Stop calling these numbers. Go out, and get numbers from girls who might actually be interested. If you carry on like this, all the numbers you call will just think you are a stalker.

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    Default Re: They give me their numbers, how to deal with nex day "buyer's remorse"

    Everyone here is right and basically what they're saying is: stop giving them lame excuses to give you their numbers, grow a pair, face rejection and talk to them like normal human beings
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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