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Thread: Should I tell them the thruth ?

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    Angry Should I tell them the thruth ?

    Girls usually ask me back ... if I am alone, why I am lone... I don't like lieing to much ... but is kind of weird to tell that I am alone for 1 year just because i had sex with 6 girls, and I currently have two friends with benefits.

    Is is it ok to tell them this? Or they will run away when they hear of others girls?I mean common, how many guys will hunt a girl who just sayd she got 2 fark bodies?

    Is it dhv or dlv ?

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    Default Re: Should I tell them the thruth ?

    Who cares?

    I think when it comes to the truth you have to have a reason for being honest. Being truthful all the time is exhausting and in the end hurts you sometimes more than you know it. We all want honesty in the size of a pill we can swallow. We never want the whole dark truth. My point is stick to a principal that you can champion. If you dont want to lie then dont. If you want to beat around the bush then do so. Do what feels right in which you can still move on with your life with your head held high.

    Personally for me i am brutally honest and have no fear sharing. I am cautious when others seem like they have ulterior motives when asking. It leads me to rebuttle with finding out their intentions
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Should I tell them the thruth ?

    True indeed.. its not so much about telling the truth, its about how you tell the truth. The things you say can have both negative and positive effects on how someone views you.
    When I'm confronted with that question I usually say " I date a few girls for a few different reasons". Don't use that unless u have some game to back it up because that usually will lead to more questions. Also get use to asking the same uncomfortable question right back after you answer. You can even say " well why are you single" let her answer it first so that way you can see what B.S she throws out first and test the waters with her response. Try not to be rattled during conversation, just relax if all fails there are plenty of girls out there.
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    Default Re: Should I tell them the thruth ?

    I really don't like lying either but in this situation at the beginning of the interaction if a girl asks why I'm alone I do tell a lie and say I was with friends but they left. It's not a major lie just something minor. I've had a few times where I bluntly said I'm here to meet girls but I would need to Field Test that more to see what kind of responses I get.

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    Default Re: Should I tell them the thruth ?

    Quote Originally Posted by ismartguy View Post
    Girls usually ask me back ... if I am alone, why I am lone... I don't like lieing to much ... but is kind of weird to tell that I am alone for 1 year just because i had sex with 6 girls, and I currently have two friends with benefits.

    Is is it ok to tell them this? Or they will run away when they hear of others girls?I mean common, how many guys will hunt a girl who just sayd she got 2 fark bodies?

    Is it dhv or dlv ?
    Be playful.
    "I woke up yesterday from a 50 years cryogenic sleep. Is Neil Armstrong still going to the moon?"

    Or something like that, who cares? Being serious is so fucking boring.

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    Default Re: Should I tell them the thruth ?

    When a girl asks me, " Why are you single?"

    My response, "I am single by choice, I haven't met a girl worth getting into a relationship with since I broke up. I'll continue to date casually until a girl worth my time comes along."

    See what I did? Let me break down my response:

    1/ - Single by choice which tells her that I did the breaking up. EVEN if you got dumped always tell a girl that you were the dumper and she was the dumpee. Never, ever say you got dumped.

    2/ - You haven't met a girl worth getting into a relationship since you broke up tells her that you just don't settle for any girl and that you've been meeting girls since then. You reject them for relationships... this is demonstrating higher value. Never say you got rejected.

    3/ - You date casually, it implies that you get dates. She'll start to qualify herself as to why she's different from the other girls.


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