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    bonsai Guest

    Default Length of text messages?

    Hey guys. I met a cute 8 yesterday at a karaoke and I texted her today so she'd save my number. Her response was really short but really quick. Here's how it went:

    bonsai: Hey, Morisette! (she sang an Alanis Morrisette song) It's (name of spanish performer you people won't know). Here's my number. Save it, take care of it and love it dearly. Hey, you sang very well last night. We should make a record together. 85% of the earnings for me and 15% for you seems fair.

    Her: Haaaaaaaa! I'll just say yes to you.

    I haven't really sent anything back to her. I have a text written, and I'll probably sent it but it's 3 fucking pages long. I lose it when I get such short responses. Any tips? I wanted to tell her that she's a good sport, give her an ioi because we hardly spoke, she just gave me her number and invite her to do something tonight, but I feel that if I break those down in different messages at some point she'll stop answering because of the low commitment to the communication her first text gave me. Tips anyone?

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    Default Re: Length of text messages?

    The shorter the better... anything else is just trying to hard.

    A good rule of thumb when dating/attracting women. Whoever works the hardest generates the least attraction.

    Simply put, the harder she works for you and the less hard you work for her, the more she is attracted.

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    Default Re: Length of text messages?

    People, Bill knows his thing! That's how I always saw it go and it's how it goes most of the time.

    However, there seem to be exceptions.

    I sent the very long message. She didn't answer. Went out with friends and she called me at 12 30. I didn't pick up. In the long text I had told her we were going back to the karaoke tonight. Turns out she was there, waiting for me. Hung out with her and a male friend who was totally cool with the whole thing. Was very hard to Kino, but I did what I could (rubbing legs, touching her arm, her hands when I could). I had to go to a pub and she wouldn't be able to get in (she's 19) so I told her to go to the back with some lame excuse. K-closed her and I'll schedule something for Sunday. Note the name SUNDAY, not Valentine's.

    It's to be noted that before this, all the contact we had was eye contact, I asked her to sing a song with me and she agreed, and after an hour (apart, we weren't even on the same table and we didn't get to sing) she came to my table to say bye and I told her "You're giving me your nomber and we're coming back here together". And, besides that, the text I sent her. I guess it's all just calibration and choosing your words correctly. But around 2 of every 3 times, what Bill said works best.

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    Default Re: Length of text messages?

    Sounds like you built a ton of attraction in that first encounter, because everything I've ever seen/heard agrees with what Bill said. Text game is something I feel I've gotten amazing at, and I agree the shorter the better. If my text ever gets over one page, ever, I'll edit it down, and most texts I edit down anyways. Going through a few drafts also keeps her waiting longer, which is also a good thing.

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    Default Re: Length of text messages?

    It's to be noted that before this, all the contact we had was eye contact
    Eye contact is the best 'opener' there is. It turns a cold approach into a warm approach. If there was one single thing I would encourage guys to do is make eye contact, smile and read her response.

    If she smiles back that is like her holding up a GIANT sign that say's "PLEASE COME TALK TO ME" (credit Nick Sparks).

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