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Thread: What are the different ways in which we can DHV??

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    Default What are the different ways in which we can DHV??

    I still need to get my head around the ways to demonstrate higher value (dhv).

    I understand the concept that during attraction you need to Demonstrate you are a person of Value - as in you are not a total loser, I also understand that you do not need to be a rockstar to DHV.

    Attraction is an area of my game that I am really trying to work on but I am struggling to figure out how I should Demonstrate Value that is different to the average guy in a bar or club or whatever.

    I get confused when I read books or threads about attraction where people say - just throw in a few more DHV's.....but what KIND of DHV do they mean?

    Surely I can't stand there just randomly fire off story after story where I saved my ex girlfriend from falling onto train tracks or the time I took charge and got my friends out a rough situation etc etc - surely that comes across as try hard? - maybe one or two of those stories thrown in is fine, which to be honest I think most guys kinda do naturally anyway - most guys DHV without knowing it because most guys these days that are out in social environments have good jobs, confidence, have travelled have interesting hobbies have ex girlfriends and social value - so how do I DHV differently to every other guy?

    I am aware that the BEST way to DHV is to use stories that contain the attraction spikes that demonstrate to a women that you are pre-selected or the leader of men or a risk taker etc - but how are my DHV stories supposed to get her attention more than the next guy?
    How do I make my DHV's different to other guys without coming across ridiculously stupid and totally try hard?

    what other ways besides stories can I DHV??

    I am a naturally sociable guy with a good sense of humour - i'm not a comic but I can talk the back legs off of a donkey - I have no problem with that - I am confident in social situations around guys and girls,I have experience with women, I am not needy I dress well, i have good morales, normal emotions a good job, money to do the things I wanna do (within sensible reason) I have a house a car and I am not an unattractive guy - but most people and most guys are like that - most guys that are in clubs have those kinds of DHV's.

    Even with all that as well as teasing, banter, negs all thrown in I am still struggling to get girls to chase me, so that I can get ioi's and then start qualifying them.

    what other ways can you DHV that will create attraction and get her see you as different and more appealable than the other guys that are around her??

    Any help, advice, explanations and examples would be a massive help to me and much appreciated.

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    Default Re: What are the different ways in which we can DHV??

    I like to demonstrate it by finding a way to mention I travel 4 times a years. 1 in every season. Talk about how my passport is running out of pages. I demonstrate by showing my love for different types of cuisine and wines. The less she knows about wine the better. I tell her she will learn if I she stick around. I make sure to mention the times I've travel abroad with 2 others friends both hot girls. Let her know i'm do a boozy brunch every saturday with unlimited mimosas with my brunch friends who completely separate from my friends friends. . TEll her when im more comfortable with her i will bring her along and introduce her to my friends. why? Because they really liked the last girl but i didn't. THEN HERE COMES THE QUESTION... WHY ARE YOU SINGLE? Thats when i let her know date a few girls for a few different reasons. And i tell her i'm looking for a special skill set to make my girlfriend. Not just a pretty face. I'm looking for a girlfriend who can be my best friend. Make her friends like you. Nothing you do or say will equal her friends saying you're a catch. maintaining Eye contact and Kino actually help a lot also. She needs to know that your are just at home and comfortable with a girl like her. Never ask her about being your GF, But definitely try to F-close like its your birth right. Make sure you hold doors, lead her by the hand , be romantic. show chivalry is not dead. Basically be a attractive,well read, well traveled, intelligent, sophisticated ASSHOLE who's very high in demand.
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    Default Re: What are the different ways in which we can DHV??

    The best way for you to dhv is to don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks of you. Say whatever you want, as long as it's not seeking validation and you'll DHV yourself.

    DHV comes from having good inner game, otherwise it's just bragging or seeking validation. Tease girls, be cocky and funny. Be bold. For example "so... today's your lucky day! You're hanging around with such an awesome man..." and wink. This way you're not seeking validation. You're showing that you're confident because you're not fearful of her looks, etc. And guess what? Confidence is the biggest DHV you can have, because everything else just flows from it.

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    Default Re: What are the different ways in which we can DHV??

    Make OTHER people feel valuable around you.
    THAT is what a true "High Value Man" does.

    It's not about showing off & making people feel inferior to you.

    A High Value Man understands that when people feel GOOD around you, they'll want to be around you.

    That means, you're able to exhibit respect for others, as well as real leadership qualities.

    Don't try to "display higher value"....
    Just BE "High Value".


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    Default Re: What are the different ways in which we can DHV??

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Make OTHER people feel valuable around you.
    THAT is what a true "High Value Man" does.

    It's not about showing off & making people feel inferior to you.

    A High Value Man understands that when people feel GOOD around you, they'll want to be around you.

    That means, you're able to exhibit respect for others, as well as real leadership qualities.

    Don't try to "display higher value"....
    Just BE "High Value".
    I agree with T-Mal.

    It's all about your energy and vibe. If you are happy, loose, carefree, having fun, not worrying about others perception of you then girls will pick up on it and see you have value based on how you carry yourself. Forget those 'stories'. Tell a story if it's true and you're not saying it to try and impress her...girls will know if you're being in-congruent or try hard.


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