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    Jonnyz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    Hey guys,

    So this is my situation, there is this bot girl I ran into a couple of times (once in a grocery store and another in starbucks) and she was with her friend who looked a little bitchy so I never approached!
    now I didn't run into her for the past week except in a bar last weekend but I was in a rush and noticed she was alone! (she used to work at that bar)

    I was on tinder the other day and she was on it so I know for a fact that she is single! Now here is where it gets a little complicated, I will start a new job about an hour from where I am and will be gone for 7 days for training. I know the girl's name and her facebook and we have a mutual friend ( the bar owner where she worked at while she was attending school), I know the bar owner through my ex-gf who knows his fiance and he coached me for a bodybuilding competition before.

    The only way I see it right now is sending her a message on facebook, but I don't wanna be this loser just like those guys creeping on girls all the time! I don't know if it's acceptable or not but it's just that I'm not in my usual game so I'm confused about my approach!

    Would love your advice guys ! Thank you

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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    Your first approach is FB? There is a lot wrong with this picture. You had plenty of chances and clearly decided she wasn't worth it. So how will that convo go? Hey I saw you at the Bar, on Tinder, at Starbucks but never talked to you? Not gonna fly mate. We need to get out there approaching and start out swinging.

    Need to focus on creating more serendipitous moments with women. By doing this your success rate will go up but the less you approach the less you are gonna get anywhere. Only hit up on FB if you are texting and got attraction going then she will be watching you like a hawk due to all the romance going on but you are starting from low value.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Jonnyz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    I hear you bro! I only ran into her twice and I was in the process of breaking up with my ex then, and was too early to hit on her as I'm pretty sure she was aware that I had a gf then! Plus the fact that she was her friend who is a little bitchy and will cock block me if I approached!

    Facebook is my only option because I will be gone at work for a week and then off for 4 days and then back to work again so my chances of running into her again are slim even though we live in a small college town

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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    You can always talk to her when u come back from training

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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    Approach as many women as possible not just the one you fancied in your dreams... By less expectations and more balanced gaming across all women you not only amplify your chances with connecting with women but also amplify your experience in various scenarios
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Jonnyz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    I'm really fine with approaching girls really, I have approached a few in the past few weeks but I just got out of a 2 year relationship that was stressing me out and I put an end to it. So I'm looking at potential gfs who will not be a downgrade from my ex

    That's why I was asking about sending the message on facebook! The only two times I ran into this girl were in a grocery store when she was with her friend and I was really in a rush when I saw her at Starbucks!

    Now I do have a mutual friend with her on fb, it's a friend of mine who owns a bar where she used to work when she she was in college but I don't wanna ask him to introduce me to the girl for many reasons!

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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    Forget FB man my IG is going flipping nuts. This HB10 is sh!testing the ever living snot out of me. I threw in the BF comment and it PINGd her wild. 1 year and a half later we have been talking for 2 days strait what the hell and she never said anything before. What the hell. Anyway you should add her as a friend but not contact her on FB. FB messages are most often considered a creeper status.
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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    When you see her again:

    "You must be stalking me! It's like the 8th time in 2 weeks that I see you!"
    With a smile.

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    Default Re: Help a brother out please! Approaching a HB

    You should DEFINITELY NOT message her on Facebook before anything else. Just wait to you see her when you are out and about and go from there. Just be natural. Just approach her in a curious manner and say what comes to mind. Do not get caught up with phoney pick up lines or canned openers. Just be natural and be yourself. It is the BEST option by a long shot.

    Good luck and have fun!
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