So I goto the gym often, usally 4-6 days a week. I usally avoided hitting on women at the gym, because such reasons such as I don't want to be a bother to the girls if they are actually there to just work out, but with time my opinion on that has changed. For one my gym has a woman's only section, so if men were bother they can safely retreat. So now my issue is the approach and continued game at the gym.
I like to think there are two types of targets at the gym(feel free to correct my thinking if you want)
The girl at the gym that thinks poorly of her body and wants to improve it. Usally has some damaged self image/esteem issues. I think these girls are the ones more likely to pay for the personal trainers as well.
The girl at the gym that is clearly a 8,9,or even a 10. She is smiling and wearing the tight spandex, a top that only covers her breasts, leaving her abs and lower back exposed. She has a probably has a tan. Every guy (even the gay men) stop to give her a look when she comes in. Her self esteem/image probably not as damaged as the other girl.
Of course I rather have my selection of the second of the two girls, but I am not keen on good approaches to either. To make my matters worse, my friend is in greater need of help than me. I get my fair share of women outside of the gym, usally have a couple girlfriends at one time. MY friend is 18 and has been raised by his mother(no dominant male figure) and has a greater problem with women because he gives them a superiority complex. He comes to me all the time for girl advice and works out at the gym with me. He asks me for advice for getting the gym girls, and all I can give him is the basics like remember to smile, your aim is to look and act confident. Don't be all in her face, you got to seem like your the catch, not that your desperate. The basics...but nothing like openers to use at the gym.
So anyone got some opener ideas for me and such?