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    Default dealing with a girl who is a cold to you?

    I see this chick at my work all the time. She's a solid 8, she's so cold to me. But she is nice to everyone else. I get along with everyone else & am known as a talkative outgoing person. How do I deal with a girl like this? Mainly I just don't want to be hated. Its a huge dlv cuz everyone notices it

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    Default Re: dealing with a girl who is a cold to you?

    If you don't want to be hated, it means you care about what other people think about you, so you'll try to please everyone. Guess what, it's bad.

    Do and say whatever the fuck you want. As long as it amuses you. This is the only way of you being liked by someone, because if you act as someone else, then it's not "you".

    That being said, tease that girl. Banter her. Give her a hard time about something.

    For example, if she's with an angry face, say something like: "oh man, is it safe to walk around here? 'Cause you're with such an angry face that I'm starting to think that you're about to kill someone... and I'm far too pretty to die so soon..." With a smile/wink.

    Got it?

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    Default Re: dealing with a girl who is a cold to you?

    Lenric is good. I'd look up disqualifiers and find ways to start disqualifying her. If she's nice to everyone else it most likely means she's testing you, or you've portrayed too much interest and she thinks you're an awkward creeper. Disqualifiers are the best way to fix either one.

    I think I wrote a post on them but I'm too lazy to go search for it now. Good luck man
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    Default Re: dealing with a girl who is a cold to you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hyperion7again View Post
    I see this chick at my work all the time. She's a solid 8, she's so cold to me. But she is nice to everyone else. I get along with everyone else & am known as a talkative outgoing person. How do I deal with a girl like this? Mainly I just don't want to be hated. Its a huge dlv cuz everyone notices it
    first of all how is it a DLV ?

    haters gon' hate haha

    second of all, who cares ? it shouldnt ruin your name unless she is saying you raped her or something.

    everyone worries too much of what others think of them so much they are disillusioned that everyone is worried about what others are thinking of them.
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