Re: How to handle "maybe".
First off, you always want to make plans to do something that you want to do. The frame is: I don't date. I simply do cool stuff. And I'm inviting you along to do cool stuff with me.
Then, if she flakes, you don't even have to pretend like you have a backup plan. The problem with faking it is that it could backfire or you could come off as incongruent, or worse yet, screw up and do something dumb later in the evening like posting on FB or something and having her see that your plans must not have been that great.
Instead, you simply go out and do the thing that you were going to do anyway. Either with her or without. Doesn't matter. You're still having fun! The frame here is: Just think of all the cool people that I never would have had the opportunity to meet if I'd been stuck having that girl by my side all night long! Well, now she's not here, so the world is mine! I can meet everybody!
So, whenever a girl flakes on me, I DEDICATE myself to having more fun than if she'd been around. And here's the funny thing about that... if you know pick up, and now how to approach people, and if you like it, then you're almost GUARANTEED to have more fun without her anyway... because if you're with her, then you're stuck with her for the whole evening, whereas if you're out alone, you get the opportunity to meet LOTS of women.
One time, I did exactly this. And what did she see on my FB page the next morning?
10:14pm Benny is now friends with Suzie Smith
10:14pm Benny is now friends with Sally Jones
10:45pm Benny is now friends with Tanya Green
11:18pm Benny is now friends with well.. you get the idea.
And then you start getting tagged in silly pics out at the bar or wherever. Yup. That's how it goes.
Incidentally, one way you can pull this off, is ask someone to take a picture of you with someone you just met. Post it on facebook and be like, "Hey, I'll tag you in this..." Generally though, I'm not really a fan of letting random strangers on my FB, however, I'll make exceptions in cases where an opportunity to do this presents itself.
Hypnotist, NLP geek. I've done: Tao of Badass, Hacking Attraction, How To Date Multiple Women (Pellicer's stuff), Get the Girl, How to Talk to Hot Women, No Strings Attached (Mehow's stuff), and now I'm getting into RSD's stuff. I don't go out a lot, but I kill it when challenged