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    Default T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    So, what are the correct steps in meeting a girl & progressing further?
    It's actually pretty simple.

    The process is as follows.

    1- Introduction.
    This doesn't mean when you introduce yourself to a girl, but rather, the very first moment you become a blip on her radar screen... it's her first impression she makes of you, mostly based on your body language & what she notices about you in a social environment, along with the way you're interacting with other people.

    2- Attraction.
    This is achieved through flirting. (AKA teasing, razzing & bantering with her.) It's the fun, playful part of the process. Enjoy it! Get good at it! Attraction is curiosity... when people are curious about you, they want to know more.

    3- rapport.
    Building connections, comfort & friendship. (DO NOT skip attraction & jump straight into rapport... you'll find yourself in the friend zone in no time)

    4- Seduction.
    This is where you shift from being silly, fun & playful, to being a confident man & begin sexual escalation. (Be sure to incorporate lots of touching during the flirting/attraction stage, or else seduction will be extremely awkward & difficult.)

    5- Relationship Balance.
    Basically maintaining a balance of continuous attraction / rapport / seduction in a cyclical fashion, so that the relationship doesn't become stale & boring. This is CRUCIAL if you want to keep seeing the girl and not lose her after a short time.


    Seriously, that's all there is to it.


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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    That is a great list T-Mal. And I know everyone should know this. But seriously, seeing it laid out like that does something for me. I feel empowered.4 Simple steps That are the key to endless fun. When I read the steps I back track through my past hook ups and look for examples of my either doing this successfully or not doing it at all. Also I think of how the relationship progressed when those steps are done correctly and the consequences of failing to effectively Hit those points. Its Very strong reenforcement for my game. GREAT LIST T-MAL
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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    They really need to create a special Nobel Prize in Seduction for T.This is an awesome list that breaks the process down into five easy steps. I will hang it in my office as a constant reminder of how we should be doing it. Funny thing is I actually feel bad for the millions of guys that don't have a clue about any of this and go out to bars and clubs night after night hoping to meet somebody

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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    Looks like someone's planing to write a new book
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    This info is actually in "The Tao Of Badass".
    But I figured it would be useful to share.


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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    You could have just humored me you know ? Plus this info is everywhere. He who does not know this is at a net disadvantage in the game.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    Well it seems to me that although this is the foundation there is a lot more to it such as how to get the phone number, what exactly to say and how to tease her, keeping the conversation going(what to talk about), where to go on a date, should the man pay, how to escalate, different scenarios such as is she alone or with friends, when to kiss, how to bring up the topic of sex without seeming like a creep etc etc. There are a lot of subtle things. Anyway, I think you should write an ebook or something since you do seem to know a lot.

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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    Yeah, there are definitely all those individual processes within each phase & certain situations.

    But that's the sequence of stages for achieving the most success.

    When guys recognize the stage they're in, they can understand which techniques / events to use.

    The mistake comes when a guy does something like skipping attraction & going straight to rapport... then trying to get a number. That CAN work, but you're most likely gonna get a number as a "friend".

    Or, they push too soon for seduction & wonder why the girl isn't receptive.

    It IS possible to go from attraction straight to seduction, but that can be tricky.

    However; following this sequence can make everything MUCH easier.


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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    This info is actually in "The Tao Of Badass".
    But I figured it would be useful to share.
    I saw that clearly. Thanks for the recommendation. He also created a flow chart.

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    Default Re: T-Mal breaking down the sequence, step-by-step

    Great chart!! Great Find. There is something to be said about simplicity. Life should be simple and success should be easy. If everything is in our head why not be simple. After all the goal is to be successful with women not feeling intelligent by having a bunch of complicated algorithms in our head.


    Life is a game where you make your own rules, so make the rules in a way where you always win!


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