So, this girl I met in one of my classes last year, I've been trying to get to go on a date with me. I've asked her out a few times, but hadn't had any success with her. I honestly don't think the problem is she just doesn't want to hang out with me.
The first time I asked her out we got around to agreeing a Friday afternoon would work for both of us since she was going to be busy that morning and Saturday. But then, I got a call about a job interview, so I had to cancel. The interview didn't take as long as I thought it would, so I texted her when it finished asking her if she wanted to reschedule or not. I ended up telling her I'd let her know when I was free again.
The next time, I asked her if she wanted to go bowling, and she told me she wasn't any good at it. I joked about her not being good at a lot of things. I don't fully remember what happened this time, but I think we agreed she would text me the next day to let me know if she could or not since she didn't know if she was doing something with her parents or not. I told her to let me know by 3. Of course, she forgot, and at like 4 or 5 she texted me saying, "sorry" and explaining she had just gotten back from another city. She was helping her parents with something. So, she couldn't have come anyway, which I figured.
Since then, once or twice I've tried to be "spontaneous" and ask her out for the same day. But I've realized that doesn't really work with her for a lot of different reasons. But other than those times, I haven't made an effort since. Her parents are both her ride to places, and ultimately decide whether or not she can go do things with anyone.
So, what can I do to finally get her out with me? My last ditch effort was going to be asking her to Prom, but I don't know about that anymore. It really sucks not having a car. Honestly, I feel like the biggest barrier is transportation for both of us.