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    Default What do you think of opinion openers?

    I am wondering if anyone has had any luck using opinion openers and what you think of them. I have mixed feelings. I think they are good for crowds and parties and social interactions but maybe not so much for picking up women.

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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    The "opener" won't pick up women.
    It's just something used to make an introduction.

    It really doesn't matter WHAT you say; it's all about body language & projecting confidence & the right vibe.

    Opinion openers can be ok, but to me they're more likely to make a guy get stuck in rapport, because he doesn't know how to transition to flirting & building attraction.

    I honestly recommend flirting right from the start, because it puts you in the proper gear to progress & move forward.


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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    Ok so what is an example of a flirting opener?

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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    hey Mystik,
    one of the main problems guys face when they just start, is "what do I say to her?".
    and then they get into forums, just like this, and when they ask "what do I say" they are being told "it doesn't matter". Lol, not much of a help, no?

    just think about the most interesting man in the world-lets say Stephen hawking.
    he can tell you all about the universe-a very interesting subject by itself, yet I don't think you believe he can attract girls easily, right?
    that's because it's not about what you say, it's more about your vibe-the energy you give. It's the addition of your body language, your tone, your eye contact, your smile. how much you are relaxed. how fast you move and how much you voice is strong, assertive or pierce.

    but- we still need to open somehow, right?
    other then saying, "hi" which is a pretty good way by itself, you can take her focus.
    just lift your hand(so she knows you are talking to her), smile and say whatever you see around her, or on her. comment her smile, for example, or how fast she walks or even what is around you.

    then-just explain to her why you are there! tell her you thought she seemed cool and you came to say hi.
    play with it alittle and you will see it's much easier once you get used to it!
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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    I am not just getting started. I was just asking for opinions on opinion openers and whether anyone here thinks they are good. I personally would probably not use them if I was seriously trying to pick up a woman but I have heard some say they are good and some say they aren't for attracting women so just wanted to hear another perspective.

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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    I think opinion openers are ok if you change the topic really fast and show your intent quickly after. Like I went to the club and there was a girl standing next to a table and I asked her if these tables have been for a long time. She said immediately that it's not why I came talking to her. I just laughed and said: "yea" and continued from there and more direct.

    Does she remember that I opened her with the opinion opener? F NO. So, opinion opener is ok as long as you don't get stuck on it.

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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    I see what you did there with the thread title, Mystik...

    I think opinion openers are fantastic for day game. It's natural, it breaks the ice, her body language when she responds will immediately tell you how much time she has and whether you have a chance.

    At night though? No way.

    Online game? Possibly. It might help get you some responses off of POF or OKC if you find that a lot of your messages are getting ignored. But if I were to do that, I'd probably tie the opinion opener to something in my profile (e.g., "Hey see that little girl in the third picture on my profile? She's my niece and her birthday is coming up and you seem like you have a good sense of style/fashion/grip on what's cool/kid who's about the same age/etc...")
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    Default Re: What do you think of opinion openers?

    I use all types of openers, and quite frequently use indirect opens and I seduce the hell out of women in 30 to 60 minutes. Personally I like opinion openers because it allows me to build up to a seduction sneak attack.


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