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    Default sensing a breakup talk .. reverse

    I'm sensing a breakup talk with my girlfriend sometime this weekend, she said she wnats to talk in person in a public bar. I'm just wondering how to reverse her decision and what I can say to dhv as well.

    any help would be nice.

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    Default Re: sensing a breakup talk .. reverse

    The only response to this discussion is to agree with her. Be non-needy and say "I am really glad that you brought this up and I think you are right, maybe we aren't a great fit for each other. I do think you are great and maybe we can work it out another time, but we definitely are not a good fit for each other at this point in our lives." Then stand up, give her a quick hug and say "It really was a pleasure, and I hope you find someone to make you happy."

    Then walk away.

    Any other response, or begging or pleading or anything needy will result in her NEVER liking you again. Trust me on this. You won't change her mind, you will just make her less interested in you.

    On the other hand, this response, instead will have her replaying in her mind if she did anything wrong and it will drive her nuts thinking about you.. and maybe... just maybe she will want you back.

    While this is certainly not guaranteed to work, it will maintain your dignity, self confidence and give you a chance in the future with her and put you in the right frame of mind for other girls who may come into your life.

    Good luck.

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    Default Re: sensing a breakup talk .. reverse

    Bill pretty much summed it up perfectly. I would say something like "I'm glad you brought that up because I've been feeling the same way. I feel like we just haven't been vibeing lately. It would be the best for both of us to see other people. You're an amazing woman". Then smile, kiss her on the cheek, and leave.

    This will drive her absolutely nuts and will give you the only chance to get back with her (In the future, not right away). Whatever you say should be along the lines of what I wrote or Bill wrote. It's the only way.


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