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  1. #1
    southside44 Guest

    Default desperate please help

    ok...this girl and i went to school back in the 8th grade and i think she had a little crush on me back then(not that that that would matter now,13 years later.but just sayin).i friended her on facebook. i havent seen this girl in at least 10 years. now with that info you may think it would be easy for me to talk to this chick but its not. shes got a decent job and a house by herself.i on the other hand do have a sizable savings account.but im on disability and not working(ever again) and live at home at 27.for this ill prob be labeled as a scumbag in her eyes.How do you think i can bag this chick?

  2. #2
    Instinct Guest

    Default Re: desperate please help

    Quote Originally Posted by southside44 View Post
    ok...this girl and i went to school back in the 8th grade and i think she had a little crush on me back then(not that that that would matter now,13 years later.but just sayin).i friended her on facebook. i havent seen this girl in at least 10 years. now with that info you may think it would be easy for me to talk to this chick but its not. shes got a decent job and a house by herself.i on the other hand do have a sizable savings account.but im on disability and not working(ever again) and live at home at 27.for this ill prob be labeled as a scumbag in her eyes.How do you think i can bag this chick?
    I have like the best solution! You could find a job that is mostly typing, buy a house, and this problem goes away. Honestly, this sounds more like your problem with yourself rather then "her problem with you". If you can present yourself as high value, then you can win her, but you seem to think that you are low value, I would work on that first.

    I know you probably wanted a canned line, or some tactic, but this is straight to the real point.

    I think I already have a pretty good picture of you after interviewing hundreds of people for dozens of different, even non pua related projects. You label yourself as a scumbag or at least you think other people always will. I mean this girl has probably had 4-5 boy friends and serious relationships in the last 13 years. How many have you had? Even if she did have a crush on you in eigth grade, shes an adult now, she probably hardly remembers it.

    If you being injured is a decent reason for you to be at home and to have decided, at 27, that you will never work another minute of your life, then fine, do that, and don't be ashamed.

    I would probably call you lazy and a quitter, and I wouldn't date you, but I am not her and I am not you. Only you have to answer to you, and if she cant accept you, then the relationship wont work anyway.

    One of my best friends is in a wheel chair and has very limited mobility of his right hand, former marine. He is a web site designer now and makes good money working for a big company. He could have been on welfare and disability, and living with his parents, but he said screw it, thats not how I roll (haha <- cause of the wheel chair).

    Are you proud of and stand next to the fact that you live your life the way you do? If so, then stand by it, and if she cant accept it, fuck her.
    Last edited by Instinct; 02-18-2010 at 10:18 AM.

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    Default Re: desperate please help

    I have to agree and give a little tough love. You have money use that as a down payment on a house, get a job that can accommodate your situation and accept things as they are... she will also.

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    The Playbook Guest

    Default Re: desperate please help

    Who says you have to bring money into the conversation? Shes not a Business major is she? Do you reap to her about stocks, bonds, investments and other currency values? If not then why even concern yourself with it.

    Unless you are promising her big dinners and gifts? If you got at least a means of transportation, the bare minimum, and a bit of spending money you should be alright. Don't feel inadequate unless you are intentionally being lazy and blowing out your confidence because of your money issues. Its 2010 times are tough, experts even relay the information that more kids/students will be spending a longer time living with their parents because of the economy and how hard times are gaining any financial grounds.

    If anything Id be feeling good knowing Im going after a girl that has shit going for herself, that means itll be less BS and confidence issues coming from her in the log run. Wont have to rely on some male figure to support her every minute of her life.


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