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Thread: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

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    Talking Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Say I make eye contact with a chick in a pub. I make a face, stick my tongue out or cross my eyes or something. Then I motion her over to me, she comes, I motion her to lean in so I can talk into her ear. "I wanna eat your pvssy!"

    I wouldn't have a problem doing this, especially if I'm a little buzzed. Question is, what are the chances, if any, for this to work? Any takers?

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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Well it's pretty ballsy. She'll probably think you're joking at best. Other than that it's disrespectful.
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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    I don't know if it's too disrespectful... It kinda puts emphasis on HER pleasure, as opposed to "I wanna fvck you", which would put emphasis on MY pleasure.

    But yeah, it may well be TOO ballsy.
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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Chance of getting laid 5% .... chance of getting smacked in the face 90% .... being that ballsy with a girl you don't know is totally disrespectful

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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    First of all, you can never be too ballsy. Second of all I wouldn't say it's disrespectful.

    Is it smart? Definitely not. A better way is to talk to the girl and get some signals from here THEN say that. I do this all the time and it works wonders. Once she's already attracted this will push her over the edge. I usually wait until AFTER I kiss her the first time THEN I say something like that. Depending on how fast you can move this can be in a matter of minutes.

    It will work on some girls in the context you explained, but by waiting a LITTLE before unleashing it, you will up your percentage by ALLOT.

    I have a friend who went up to a girl at a party and said "You want to go upstairs and fuck?". She said NO with disgust but her friend who was sitting next to her said "I do!" and they went upstairs.

    FYI: If you do get this bold you will get resistance but never back down or apologize. This is just the girl testing you. She will act like she's all upset but she's really just shocked/amazed at your ballsyness. Don't EVER back down.

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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    First of all, you can never be too ballsy. Second of all I wouldn't say it's disrespectful.

    Is it smart? Definitely not. A better way is to talk to the girl and get some signals from here THEN say that. I do this all the time and it works wonders. Once she's already attracted this will push her over the edge. I usually wait until AFTER I kiss her the first time THEN I say something like that. Depending on how fast you can move this can be in a matter of minutes.

    It will work on some girls in the context you explained, but by waiting a LITTLE before unleashing it, you will up your percentage by ALLOT.

    I have a friend who went up to a girl at a party and said "You want to go upstairs and fark?". She said NO with disgust but her friend who was sitting next to her said "I do!" and they went upstairs.

    FYI: If you do get this bold you will get resistance but never back down or apologize. This is just the girl testing you. She will act like she's all upset but she's really just shocked/amazed at your ballsyness. Don't EVER back down.
    Thanks a lot, this was the exact kind of reply I was looking for! And yeah, it's kind of along the line I was thinking.

    Basically, having been in a relationship for so long I just wanna fvck around a lot. The more the better. But since patience isn't one of my strong points I just wanna get to it ASAP.

    So cool, I'll definitely work on building up some attraction and getting those signals first.
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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Hey motorbreath, just out of curiosity how old are you ???

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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Quote Originally Posted by Motorbreath View Post
    Basically, having been in a relationship for so long I just wanna fvck around a lot. The more the better. But since patience isn't one of my strong points I just wanna get to it ASAP.
    Be careful! One thing you DON'T want to do is come off as being too eager. If you come off as being eager this route will not work for you. You need the "I want you but if it doesn't happen it doesn't matter" vibe.

    Example: I've been told so many times how amazing I am in bed that I know I'm super good. So if a girl doesn't want to sleep with me i think "That sucks for you. I'd be the best you ever had". Which is most likely true. See, women enjoy sex MORE then men IF the guy is competent. So if you're good in bed you're giving HER something and she gets MORE out of it then you.

    If you have this Mindset you will never come off as being too eager because she becomes "lucky" to sleep with you.

    An easy way to become better in bed is to read up on the internet. I've also written a post located here: http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-girl/27592-give-her-best-sex-her-life-communication.html

    Even if you think you're good you can always improve. I thought I was awesome 5 years ago. In reality I was just above average. I kept trying to improve and now every girl I sleep with is addicted to me. I have a girlfriend right now and I'm the one who decides if we hook up or not and it drives her crazy!

    FYI: Try to please HER first. This will come back 100 fold in your favor! Cheers!

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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    Hey motorbreath, just out of curiosity how old are you ???
    40

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Be careful! One thing you DON'T want to do is come off as being too eager. If you come off as being eager this route will not work for you. You need the "I want you but if it doesn't happen it doesn't matter" vibe.

    Example: I've been told so many times how amazing I am in bed that I know I'm super good. So if a girl doesn't want to sleep with me i think "That sucks for you. I'd be the best you ever had". Which is most likely true. See, women enjoy sex MORE then men IF the guy is competent. So if you're good in bed you're giving HER something and she gets MORE out of it then you.

    If you have this Mindset you will never come off as being too eager because she becomes "lucky" to sleep with you.

    An easy way to become better in bed is to read up on the internet. I've also written a post located here:......

    Even if you think you're good you can always improve. I thought I was awesome 5 years ago. In reality I was just above average. I kept trying to improve and now every girl I sleep with is addicted to me. I have a girlfriend right now and I'm the one who decides if we hook up or not and it drives her crazy!

    FYI: Try to please HER first. This will come back 100 fold in your favor! Cheers!
    I absolutely agree. Thanks for re-enforcing my belief that I'm the one who's the prize here, and by that stop being eager. I guess being free after a long relationship kinda does make you eager to get back on the horse again.

    Nevertheless, I've always been a generous lover, so pleasing her first has never been a problem for me. 25 years of being sexually active does help a lot with things. It just didn't occur to me that I could squeeze in that fact into a discussion.

    Now I just need to come up with a nifty way to relay to the chicks that I can teach them a thing or two, which no man has before. Should be easy though, since I'm going for a fairly young group, been a long time since I last got some young pvssy.
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    Default Re: Ballsy opener attempt for direct f-close, opinions?

    Haha awesome. I usually assume I'm speaking to younger guys on here because most of them are. Let us know how it goes!


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