ok i started talking to a 7.5 in my uni class..she was giving me ioi's for the whole duration ( i got the vibe that she wanted me to escalate right there and then she kept fidgeting with her fingers and running her hands through her hair and moving her chair closer to me )
..so i told her to come and get something to eat with me blah blah she complied..i created a connection between us both as in i asked her what motivated her to do such and such she said because of xyz i replied with oh yeah i know how you feel because i xyzv.
we got some food and sat down i told her to come and sit next to me, she did.
the problem i was having was i was getting the vibe from her that she wanted me to escalate, like a kiss or whatever the hell ( but i didn't know what would be appropriate) she didnt shy away from me doing a bs palm read ..the silences made it even more arkward..i kinoed her like 3 times on the upper arm lightly.
after a couple of minutes of small talk..she said she had to leave and go and look for something..i thought oh **** ive completely blown it..she said nice meeting you and i'll see you on such and such a day.
so that was that.
have i ****** this up by not being a man and escalating?
to the more experienced members of the forum, is it appropriate to fully kiss a burd (mouth) if you've only known her for like 15 mins? if you get the vibe that she "wants you to do something" whats appropriate? Kino wise?
feedback much appreciated..