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    dark knight Guest

    Default uni pickup..i was so close

    ok i started talking to a 7.5 in my uni class..she was giving me ioi's for the whole duration ( i got the vibe that she wanted me to escalate right there and then she kept fidgeting with her fingers and running her hands through her hair and moving her chair closer to me )

    ..so i told her to come and get something to eat with me blah blah she complied..i created a connection between us both as in i asked her what motivated her to do such and such she said because of xyz i replied with oh yeah i know how you feel because i xyzv.

    we got some food and sat down i told her to come and sit next to me, she did.

    the problem i was having was i was getting the vibe from her that she wanted me to escalate, like a kiss or whatever the hell ( but i didn't know what would be appropriate) she didnt shy away from me doing a bs palm read ..the silences made it even more arkward..i kinoed her like 3 times on the upper arm lightly.

    after a couple of minutes of small talk..she said she had to leave and go and look for something..i thought oh **** ive completely blown it..she said nice meeting you and i'll see you on such and such a day.

    so that was that.

    have i ****** this up by not being a man and escalating?

    to the more experienced members of the forum, is it appropriate to fully kiss a burd (mouth) if you've only known her for like 15 mins? if you get the vibe that she "wants you to do something" whats appropriate? Kino wise?

    feedback much appreciated..

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    Default Re: uni pickup..i was so close

    It certainly would have been appropriate to give her a hug right there, maybe even a kiss on the cheek and see where that leads.

    It's all about calibration. If you hug her, and she hugs hard back - she likes it (you can tell when a girl is kind of not into the hug and kind of standing back). If she does that, just turn your head into hers and get your cheek near hers... if she complies, move your lips closer to her cheek (kiss on the cheek). Again if she complies, kiss her.

    Remember - guys are the gas, girls are the brakes.

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    Default Re: uni pickup..i was so close

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    It certainly would have been appropriate to give her a hug right there, maybe even a kiss on the cheek and see where that leads.

    It's all about calibration. If you hug her, and she hugs hard back - she likes it (you can tell when a girl is kind of not into the hug and kind of standing back). If she does that, just turn your head into hers and get your cheek near hers... if she complies, move your lips closer to her cheek (kiss on the cheek). Again if she complies, kiss her.

    Remember - guys are the gas, girls are the brakes.

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    Ive ran with hugs ,then id just watch to see how shed respond or if she was looking up and down from my eyes to my lips, then id know what was on her mind. Or after the hug shes still latched on then you know she wants a bit more

    Hugs are nothing and you can get into the frame and run from there, instead of doing nothing your pushing yourself into that frame of making some kind of move, than as said by me and Bill things can escalate further from there. Sort of like making a 3pointer on the court, you can go for the full court shot which=3pts or you can get all the way down and outside the line closer up and still make the shot worth 3pts. Don't have to go all out on it.....and obviously certain moments a kiss on the lips would be inappropriate...gott a use your judgement/experience.
    Last edited by The Playbook; 02-19-2010 at 12:24 PM.

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    Default Re: uni pickup..i was so close

    at least # close. that way you could still have the chance. now its off to see IF you see her around again. the wait is going to kill the attraction too.

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    Default Re: uni pickup..i was so close

    Oh man, campus game is crazy differant that normal game. I know i just gave a rant in an earlier post about too many books out there, but this is one of the few that gives good advice instead of trying to reword everthing else out there. The book goes into detail about social structure. This is differant compared to most pickup because you never plan on seeing a girl u meet at a coffe shop or a club again. College, its ALL about social structures, ALL about them. If you game like normal on campus, the only success u will have will be at the very beggining, or if you plan on having no friends and being as discreet as possible (not going to work).

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    Default Re: uni pickup..i was so close

    Quote Originally Posted by Catacomb Kid View Post
    Oh man, campus game is crazy differant that normal game. I know i just gave a rant in an earlier post about too many books out there, but this is one of the few that gives good advice instead of trying to reword everthing else out there. The book goes into detail about social structure. This is differant compared to most pickup because you never plan on seeing a girl u meet at a coffe shop or a club again. College, its ALL about social structures, ALL about them. If you game like normal on campus, the only success u will have will be at the very beggining, or if you plan on having no friends and being as discreet as possible (not going to work).
    everyone knows who shags everyone else..


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